My wife with other guys

theres one problem with this all though it will very exciting and great for your sex life it could also make you jelous are make your life feel like she has not expirenced life to the full

I can see were you are coming from I am 24 recently come across a girl who was a little younger who wanted to be rather naughty with my self now while I been there done that I decided to test this out & asked her to go with my friend also so it started off with two lads & her myself being one, now I have asked her to do it while am not there & to come home to have sex with me after she has been out having sex with another guy. Its the fact I know she has been naughty.

I really enjoy watching her having sex with another guy or guys at the same time knowing that she is mine & I can have her at any time almost like look how cool this girl is & how naughty she will be. To be honest I don't get jealous of any lads at all its really hard to at times to get attached this girl is one of many girls at the current time I have in my situation.

I am sort of going threw the same thing with one of the girls am meeting, I just want to see her have sex & be naughty as I want to put her in a room with 5 guys class her as my girlfriend & tell her to perform acts on those guys while they tell me how amazing, gorgeous she is & naughty only to come home to me later on.

Yes its normal...and for me a turn on. As Lynne said it must involve respect for each other. As far as having your wife go f**k somebody without you being there, in my past experience its not a good idea. Now with my current wife, we only play when we're both there and it has been GREAT for the past 10 years!

I think that's sick! sharing your wife? Pay some respect Dude!!! and just thank God for what you have .. you're so gunna be in pain sooner or later cause of what ur doing

Let me tell you that once you get over the anxiety of jealousy - and you will over time - the experience will be absolutely fantastic. And if you are worried about ruining your relationship - don't. From my experience it will not only elevate the sensual/sexual side to a new level, but will make the relationship much stronger. This could be part due to the fact, that when you engage in such a fantasy, it will require building a very strong trust relationship between you and your wife/gf. This trust, in turn, will act like a glue in all other aspects of your life.

In my case it contributed to a totally new level of sex life, made me a much more sensual person in bed and changed my relations to her outside of the bedroom. I say so many more nice words to her now, then before all of this started. BTW, we are together for 20 years now.

My wife is a tall, slim, gorgeous beauty with dark long hair. She has first met another guy about 12 years ago, after many of my delicate suggestions. I had to leave on a work assignment to another city and was only coming home about twice per month. My suggestions and her loneliness probably played part in it, and she met the guy who was hitting on her for some time. They did it when I was away and she recorded it with a hidden cam. My emotions that first time were ranging from total jealousy to extreme erotic arousal. I felt happy one time and lonely/almost betrayed another. But it was like a drug. I liked it so much. Have never before experienced such sexual intensity and arousal.

She did it several more times with this guy over a number of months. Then she stopped for a few years - work, kids, busy life. With my suggestions she went back to the lifestyle. Put adds on singles sites etc. She started meeting guys and the more it was happening the more my emotions were shifting away from jealousy to sensuality, arousal, love for her.

We are a so much better couple now. We used to argue and be nasty to each other a lot more often before this started happening. Now, we barely argue ever. I am more relaxed and I feel that my love to her is on par or better than when me met for the first time.

She is seeing a guy now, that will go through the whole night with her. Last time she had three orgasms during the night, and then they did it again twice in the morning. This guy is incredible. He is so nice and sensual to her and makes her go to new levels with sexual arousal. She brings these new levels back home, where it really makes a difference in our sex life.

BTW, she recorded video only twice. She prefers to have privacy with a guy. Makes her more at ease and enjoy the whole thing way better. However, she agreed to use a little voice recorder if she can in a given situation. Let me tell you. The sound recordings are even better than the video. My mind is discovering the levels of sensuality and emotions I never new existed in me. Probably the imagination adds to it, since I don't see the video.
She would not feel comfortable with a threesome or if I was watching life. I don't know if I would not feel awkward just siting there and watching. Instead, I prefer to let my imagination go loose when she is doing it and then listen to the recording afterwards.

Best of luck to all of you.

i find it so hard for blk wome to accept this i am blk and i want mt gf to have sex with other mn i swear we argue bout this all the time. i do everything for her i just wish she would just try this one time. any suggestions to gettn her to try ths

Im just curious about my wife, if she like it or not, but i didnt ask her yet, every time we have sex we had this dirty talk saying he is a whore and want to have one night stand with the other guy, but im the who always initiated that, at first she got angry to me, but then it seems shes already ok with that, what do you think guys is she wants to have sex with other guy or just to please me. thanks!

It's normal to fantasize about it. I don't think doing it is actually the right thing to do for most couples, though. For some, maybe.

As a fantasy, it is very hot. Turns both of us on a lot. I think it's normal to feel excited watching our mate get screwed because it's hardwired as a trait from our animal past.

It's normal to fantasize about it. I don't think doing it is actually the right thing to do for most couples, though. For some, maybe.

As a fantasy, it is fucking hot. Turns both of us on a lot. I think it's normal to feel excited watching our mate get fucked because it's hardwired as a trait from our animal past. Gets me cumming twice as much in her too...

I've been doing this for years. If you have a good relationship and do it for the right reasons, its fantastic. I love the visual stimiulation and that's about as good as it gets. Just lay down your ground rules and I suggest you be sure you are the last to "finish". Otherwise you might lose interest before the part is over, and that could change your perspective.

believe me friend, it is good while dreaming but you may feel so bad if you make it real.

It is normal, as a thought. Diferent to actually do it.
My Hubby and I are on the swing scene, but we treat it as a hobby, nothing more. similar to a couple who may go to a football match, or do the gardening together.
It has to be a mutual respect and also mutual responsibilty.
Lastly NO means NO! Don't compound it by trying to find some other woman to fill the void.

Lynne