My wife who used to give oral sex, decided to never do it again :(

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when my wife and I were dating she gave me oral sex on occasion. Then once we were engaged it stopped happening all together i didnt think much of it until she told me she doesnt really enjoy doing it for me or any other man she has been with and was not planning on doing it again, she also said she only did when we were dating because she was trying to "impress" me. Well i considered not getting married because the thought of never getting a blowjob again terrified me lol but she is the mother of my son she is a great mother and person so we did get married but have fought over this a few times. Ive tryed telling her i wont go down on her (she didnt really care plus i enjoy it), I asked her if she would prefer me to get it somewhere else ( did not work just mad her angry) so i dont know what to do. I have been over the top nice to her and that only got her to agree to doing it a few minutes before sex everyonce and awhile but she is never going to let me finish again ( after conversations about feelings and what i could do to help her want to do it has got me no where) what do i do? is this normal? .... :( sadness

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  • watcher2005
    10 years ago

    I have the identical situation. "We don't have to do that stuff anymore. We're married." The closest I get to a handjob from her is her touching my shoulder once in a while. We did lots of stuff while we were dating, but I guess that was to keep me content and interested until we started occasional sex. Now married 27 years.

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  • MR>E
    12 years ago

    it happens therez not much more u can do

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  • tentacleTherapist
    12 years ago

    Lol, is your kid a bastard child, getting married BECAUSE of the kid?

    Well she musn't enjoy it, she could have had a trauma in the past or maybe she just doesn't want to, but partners should respect each others needs so she should be so KIND as to do that at LEAST sometimes, that bitch.

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  • bigguy2010
    12 years ago

    It's the wedding ring. Once you put it on a girl, she stops being fun.

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    wow that really sucks! surely she could end her no fellatio policy on special occasions like your bday or something! but I dunno what else you can do to change her mind. might wanna think about investing in a flesh light :-(

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