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It's my wife's birthday next month. She wants a strap on and she wants to peg me as a gift. I asked my best friendaand he laughed and suggested a strapless. I am not sure about it but for her sake I guess once I should try it..
Pick out a harness and dildo together. Make it a fun time. If it's what she wants embrace it. If you give it a chance you will probably like it. It will be awkward for you both at first but relax and enjoy
I suggest watching erotic strap on videos together on the line. Get in the shower together and clean and finger each other‘s assholes to get used to anal play. With squeaky clean assholes lick each other‘s asses and see how much you like it. Read up on how your wife can give you an enema to clean you out to get fucked. Buy a 6 inch training dildo without balls and an 8 inch dildo without balls a little larger in diameter. Take your time and let her take your anal cheery and both of you enjoy it. By the time she finishes you will be relaxed for her to slip the 8 inch dildo back up your ass and fuck you again! She’ll never forget that birthday!
Well, maybe you could try it just once? Unless it's painful of course,or it makes you really uncomfortable.
Sounds like a fun present for both of you. I haven't done it in a while, but I used to really enjoy that. Stay away from the strapless ones, I've read they don't work very well.
Try it! So cool that she is into it. Ass play feels good. A hot woman that understands how to please your ass is a treasure.
If you're uncomfortable tell her no. Just cause it's her birthday doesn't give her the right to bugger you, especially if you don't want to be buggered.
Don't let her use this birthday stuff as a way to manipulate you if you're not comfortable with the idea.
If you're thinking about trying it, perhaps you should use different sized buttplugs first to gradually adjust yourself to taking a normal sized strap-on?
If a man I would tell her "you are the one who gets it in the ass not me!!"
Asking here is an indication that you are of two minds about it. In the end (no pun intended), you'll do what makes you most comfortable. It's nobody's business but the two of yours.
As for me, having my wife peg me changed my life and got me to enjoy (and some times, not enjoy) an unbelievably wide number of sexual activities that I'd never dreamed of!
Good luck to you!