My wife is spending money on lesbian prostitutes
I learned early in our marriage that my wife was a closeted bi-sexual. She has always had little interest in sex (maybe 7 times per year) so I moved into a separate bedroom so that I could masturbate to porn more easily. Things were stable for several years. But now that our kids are done with college, she has become a bit more restless.
I don't mind her having flings with other women a few times per year, but now she is paying a lesbian masseuse for orgasms, and it is getting expensive.
She has vowed that if I should ever file for a divorce, she will keep the proceedings locked up in court so that we both walk away penniless. She's not kidding. But she is pleasant and cooperative all the rest of the time.
What should I do?
| Do nothing for now. She will grow tired of her new exploits. | 1 | |
| Give her a financial ultimatum, | 0 | |
| Start hiding assets; a divorce is coming sooner than you think. | 0 | |
| Tell her only a steady female partner is acceptable. | 2 | |
| Suggest that she give the other woman free babysitting services for sex. | 0 | |
| Cash out of all your investments and head to Switzerland. | 0 | |
| Other. | 1 |