My wife elder sister

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Hi every one... i know many of u will get angry but this issue really makes me confused... i want it so bad i admit it but i need opinions too... im 34 years old and im a married man for the last 4 years.. my wife got a persoanlity that makes everything no matter how small it is a big problem and never satisfied with anything i do or offer... she got a sister 4 years older than me... she is single and really cute and sexy... since problems started between me and my wife she was always taking my side always... when we take lunch sometimes she always want to serve me and even when my wife asks me to give her something on the table she immediatly says dont bother him while he eats... i think she might noticed how i look at her... she started to prepare lunchs or dinner for me and i start to praise her cook and in the last month we start texting with each other... i was and im so open and clear in my texts i told her that i like ur beauty and that she is very important for me... she did replied in a positive way she also told me that im special to her and she likes me too much and even told me to not tell about our texting to my wife... but i dont know in her messages i feel that she likes me like a close friend not some one who can have sex with her... last night she ended her text by saying " thank u my sweet lovely and special brother"... brother??!!... that puts an end for it i think.. but still i want to hear opinions please

Be direct and tell her what i want? 24
go slow till she gets ready? 24
forget about it? 17
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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    You filthy pig! Do you really think that I would believe when you say that your wife is bitchy? I really hope that your wife will be the one who cheats first

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    I think you're going through a rough spot in your marriage and are now looking else where. This is a normal reaction unfortunately, but you should talk to your wife about this. Tell her that what she is doing is regretfully making you act in ways you knwo you shouldn't be. No one reacts well to criticism like that, so it would take time to get her to understand, but I think you should work things out with your wife. She's not your girlfriend, she's your wife. As for the sister, I think she was just leading you on. People want to be liked, so they will toy with other people to see how far they can get them to like them, then drop them when it's gotten to far. She doesn't want a relatiosnhip with you.

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    • Lio
      11 years ago

      like u said no one reacts well to criticism.. because believe me i did that and the result was ... well lets say not so good... for her sister its hard but u might be right.. althoug she is sending alot of texts asking why im not responding and that she misses me but hope things will get better... thank u

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      • ccjigsaw
        11 years ago

        Oh yeah. Male or female, people will start out on the defensive and make it out to be your fault. lol Human nature. You'd have to be really gentle about it, don't do ANYTHING to provoke her and explain what she's been doing and the result it will bring about if it keeps up. Something like "I really love you, and I don't want us to end, but I'm really unhappy with our relationship lately. I want you to know, I will do anything I can to fix this, but I need you in this to. And explain to her what she does." It's all give and take though, if she has some concerns about you as well you have to be open minded and make an effort to change as well. Then you tell her, if you can try and not do this, then I will stop/start doing this. Make comprimises. If you stick to your guns and do what she asks, and she doesn't do what you ask, you tell her that you've followed through and now it's her turn. It's not going to be easy at all lol but I think you could definitely make it work

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    This is not the answer. The road is dark and treacherous. Be patient and try to work out all angles. Try talking to your wife about your problems. Definitely do not go with her sister while you are still married.

    Think hard. Control

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    • Lio
      11 years ago

      Im trying hard.. i stopped texting her for the last 2 days now and she is still sending alot of texts asking why i stopped.. but thanks for the advice

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    If you make a move you need to end things with your wife first but i don't think you should do anything especially if she doesn't see you in that light.

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