My wife did a porn scene

Ok before we met my wife was a stripper and long story short she ended up shooting a porn scene for a shitty local company. We’re together 15yrs now. In the beginning she lmk about it and we found it and watched it together. No big deal to me. I was heavy into porn then so I was highly critical of the production and lack of chemistry between her and the guy plus he was no threat to me as I’m athletic and in good shape.
Ffw a few years I get curious and search for the video and find it on a ppv porn site I buy the video and watch it.
This version had more than the one I saw before Including a masturbation scene and a blowjob scene.
The masturbation scene was great I loved it but the bj was absolutely incredible. I’m so turned on by it it’s ridiculous.
We’ve done the swingers thing a cpl times. She’s one of the only women to give me good oral. My penis is a little tough to work with so I’d always wonder how other dudes would react to her bj’s.
At the swingers it was mostly her pimping me out to other women but she messed with 1 guy but he didn’t get hard.
Now we still have an absolutely incredible sex life. We both share an extremely intense physical attraction to each other. We look at each other like ‘dam right that’s mine’. We passionately kiss and touch and all that.
Is this normal? Is it ok?
Or maybe I would feel differently if the dude was a hung stud?
Idk but the shit turns me on so much that I’m tempted to open it up now. Wtf?