My wife avoiding sex talks..even she is damn hot lady

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Hi, I am living far from family due to job and wife in home town with old mom. my wife is very horny by nature and thinks sex mostly. She is hiring one part time driver for daily works also and once she asked my opinion about his looks too.

Now when ever i tries to talk on sex with her, she avoids it and change topic. What can be the reason? She can not get cold because she is damn hot girl. Do you think that she is running extra marital affair and quite satisfied from any body (most probably driver) or it is just my fear.

Appreciating if girls can reply because they can describe feelings of woman better. Can woman live for many months without sex, if she is married or can control.

Thanks and waiting for comments....

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  • hornylatino
    11 years ago

    Open your eyes your wife is fucking the driver think about it u said she is horny by nature right then why is it that everytime u talk about sex she avoids the conversation. Every women needs to get fuck at least 3 times a day especially white girl they are the horniest girls.

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  • Shahzad6945
    14 years ago

    thanks..Ur detailed reply helped me to think n act in right direction. Im not angry on her, even if she cross limits but i know she loves me too.

    thanks again.

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  • ReaperAJ
    14 years ago

    I have always believed that one should follow their instincts. Unless you are possessive and obsessive, I would say that if you think your partner is cheating, you're most probably right. Considering the fact that you are having a long distance relationship at the moment, it is possible that your wife is desperate for male attention and affection. I doubt it means she doesn't love you. Being human is very difficult sometimes as we're caught up in all these rules that say we have to be monogamous and so on no matter what. I don't disrespect that, but I do think it's very restrictive and unforgiving given certain circumstances. There was a time when my husband was working night shift and I day shift, so we constantly missed each other, then he went really far away to work and I didn't see him for quite some time. I loved him so much, but I was terribly lonely. I didn't cheat, but there were times that it crossed my mind.

    I am a hotblooded woman, always have been, but there was a time when my marriage wasn't so great due to all sorts of problems and stresses, and I went completely off sex, I was depressed and just couldn't get interested.

    Yes, I do think it's possible for a woman to go long periods without sex, I have done so myself.

    It may be your difficult situation that is causing her to feel depressed and distant from you. Sometimes it's very hard to bridge the gap, even when you love somebody. Spending a lot of time apart does cause a distancing of emotions and makes one feel strange around their partner.

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    • ReaperAJ
      14 years ago

      So, she may or may not be having an affair, that is going to be difficult for you to find out if you're so far away. I think you should confront her about it in an understanding manner, not an angry one. Tell her how you are feeling about the situation and that you would understand why she would be tempted if that is the case. You can't be anything but understanding in this situation. Trying to sustain a relationship in this manner is very difficult and stressful. You would be wiser to try and get a job nearer to home if possible so that you can resume your marriage in the proper fashion.

      Remember, if you find that she is cheating, but she still loves you, it does not have to spell the end of your marriage. I have been through this situation with my husband where he cheated several times during the first few years of our marriage. I won't say it was easy, but we worked on it and eventually I was able to let it go and forgive him. I'm glad I did because we now have a really wonderful marriage and I would have missed out on that if I'd have gone ahead and divorced him. Sometimes cheating is not because your partner doesn't love you, but because of problems they are experiencing that they cannot cope with. In your case, I'd understand if either of you cheated; we are but human and need intimacy and when that is in short supply, we will go looking for it. Just try to calm down and think this through carefully before you make a move in any direction. Talking this over is key to figuring out the solution.

      Be well and I hope you sort it out.

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