My wife and i are splitting up. need opinions and thoughts
My wife and I got married a little over two years ago. I should mention that she was mildly autistic as a child and consequently was always a loner. I have erectile dysfunction due to having my prostate removed due to cancer. I used to love satisfying her orally. She loved it and I loved doing it and then snuggling afterwards. But along the way I used to get night terrors and I would start thrahing away in my sleep. One thing led to another and I ended up sleeping on the couch. Then she claimed she had no interest in sex and just sits in the bedroom watching TV, reading or surfing on her phone. Then I find out she has applied for a subsidized apartment because she feels she is better off alone.
I feel like the only moral thing to do is to stay with her until she gets her apartment but things between us are getting worse. I'm at the point where I am thinking of a) telling her to get out b) putting in notice that we (I) are vacating our apartment and then I can go my way and she can fend for herself. She has a daughter and son-in-law in town so she could stay there then I could rent out the bedroom or I can rent a room somewhere.
What are your thoughts on this?