My two best friends hooked up, i need help!! iin?

It's very understandable that you feel hurt and upset, disappointed and rejected, given what happened must have been like a double blow at least: finding out your best friend is not into you and then her pairing up with your best friend, of all people. That really sucks, but such is life! These things are not under your control. I bet you wish you'd never introduced them, lol, but now there's nothing you can do to change things. (It reminds me how of how annoyed I was when friends came to visit me and ended up falling for my brother) I think for the time being the best thing would be for you to get some distance (Seeing them together would only fuel the fires) I know it sounds trivial, but try to keep yourself distracted, do some exercise as a safe outlet for your anger. You will get over this!

Get new friends, join a new sport or hobby or something and make some new ones

Exactly the same thing has happened to me.

The issue is you have told Ty it was okay then tried your to take your consent back afterward when their feelings had already developed. Despite how unfair you may feel if Ty genuinely likes this girl then how could he give her up? It would be hurting both of them.

You should stand by them if it is making them happy.

Just stay there for both of them and be their friend. They are you best friends for a reason; don't throw it away. If they are good friends you should be able to talk to them both about this. I'd suggest not together as that may make it awkward.

Your best bet is to apologise and just go on. As curiouser said 'such is life' you can't get every girl you like.

Having also only relatively recently ended a long term relationship you would naturally search for the first new girl to fill the void (J). Emotional homeostasis, you will of course want to be keeping things as similar as possible.

Another girl will come but until then you still need someone. Don't throw away best friends, they are precious.

Calm down for the moment, time heals all wounds.

Find something to positive to work on, if you're on a basketball team then just practice for that, go to the gym, work harder at your job, read a book. Anything that will benefit another area of your life positively.

I managed to do this and 6 months later I met a girl whom I am still with (three years later.)

All is not lost. Try to stay friends with them, don't try to spend too much time with them over the next few weeks though as your resentment will come through. Definitely do not spend time with them together. J has made her choice, attempting to change her feelings is not a good idea.

Don't do anything stupid and don't get drunk around them.

Hope this helps.

dude your guy friend knew you liked her but still went with it, thats not kool at all, whatever happend to bros before hoes >.>... oh man fuk him. and the girl, well shit leave them both, i think thats pretty legitament to go ahead and let them be. its out of your control now sadly. ive been in a similar situation. dont give up on yourself.

Lifes going to suck for a bit. tyler got mad at me since i was wanting her not to be with him and he told me off which i didnt care because this whole time he hasnt seemed to get any of it. It really bugs me how he acts like hes her property now when they just met and iv known her for a long time. They were my only true good friends.....

so i tried to work it out with both of them which ment nothing changed except i put up with it. hung out with them both once but apart from each other which was fine. Everytime i hang out with her it hurts because i want her so bad, and i resent him and am very jealous of him since hes getting what i want. The slightest thing can upset me with them and so its just not working. Im done putting my self in a position where im getting hurt and had a very long talk with jessica today about it where i dont think she gets it. she will tell me she understands but still is going to continue pursuing him. So i told her i cant handle that and im going to step back from our friendship for a bit.

I really dont think they have strong feelings for each other. Its more of a lets fuck thing and get drunk at the bars together. She has already told me she wouldnt date him for certain reasons. jessica apologized to me and said i was her best friend and she wouldnt be more then friends with him. which was great of her to say. Tyler never said anything to me other then im over acting. last night was halloween sorta and i ended up going out with them two and another friend. i didnt want to but since there my only friends i had to. I hadnt talked tyler until last night. Things seemed fine until the end of the night when we get back to tylers place and guess what happens. jessica and him go straight to his room. So now im pissed again!