My teacher at school

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i have this teacher at school, i really like her, not in a sexual way though. i sometimes dream about her, i find excuses to go see her at break times, and after class, i study alot for her class, i want to make her proud of me. Shes so sweet and cute, i an always aware when she's around, and i find myself trying to impress her, i imagin convos we could have had, sometimes i say something dumb in front of her and, feel really stupid for a long time. i look forward to her lessons and whens shes not having a good day is a little grumpy, it really upsets me, i never do anything that creepy, like find out where she lives or anything, Is this Unhealthy or abinormal?

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Based on 88 votes (66 yes)
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  • DudeLookARussian
    12 years ago

    I voted not normal, but it was a tough one. I actually know this feeling; it's the feeling of wanting to make someone proud of you; it's more properly termed "Admiration". This teacher is your hero. There's nothing wrong with that.

    However I voted "Not Normal" because your admiration does seem to border on obsessive. It's more a matter of degree if you ask me.

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  • one_guy
    13 years ago

    Do you see her as a mother figure maybe?

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  • womanwhowenttomars
    14 years ago

    NORMAL.. chill out.. just don't let it get out of hand.

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  • Bells
    14 years ago

    Totally normal!!! Like said, just keep things in perspective :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    I'm the same way with one of my teachers. I'll find excuses to go an talk to her but we are both girls so it's not like I have a crush on her. And I know where she lives I mean I baby sit for her an we text all the time. So if your not normal I'm sure not.

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  • BADMAN!
    14 years ago

    HAVE SEX WITH HER. ONLY WAY.

    BADMAN!

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    • Optimist
      7 years ago

      Wth?what advice are you giving a school kid???

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  • glamerous
    14 years ago

    its allright. you can be friends too if that is what you want. i used to do that too. it turned out pretty niceley. he's a great teacher and at times a great friend. so i guess it is pretty normal thing for you to do

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  • Stupidlookingguy
    14 years ago

    Hey. I'm just like you alright and I know exactly how you truly feel. If you can't do anything to become closer to her, I guess nothing will change between you two. Email her for a chat! (: Sooner or later, you'll open up to her and she'll be more than willing to talk to you, unless.. things don't work out.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    It does sound like a bit of a crush too - though as you say, it is not sexual - your feelings for this teacher are quite tender. Something between this teacher & you has touched your inner world.

    As long as you don't act on these feelings and act weird, and, do maintain a sense of perspective (that she is your teacher & you a student), then what's wrong? Nothing. It is rather charming.

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  • jsfdnljn
    14 years ago

    is this a co-ed school?

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  • RowdyCowboy
    14 years ago

    It is normal. You probably think she is cool and you just want her to notice you. I think we all go through that- I used to have a really cool teacher and I wanted to be as cool as him when I was younger-just a good role model.

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  • gabrielvillamayor
    14 years ago

    you need help, special help.

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