My sorry little life

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Not an is it normal question but I need advice,
I'm not a pretty girl, I'm shy, introverted everything that a guy doesn't look for. I've always liked the wrong guys, never had a boyfriend or many real friends.

I decided I needed to do something with my life so I joined a gym, it's a gym in a holiday resort so the holiday makers are often in there, on my second week I was in the pool, I went into the steam room ;) and this hot lad followed me in I was with my friend, we didn't speak much just general stuff like where you from blah blah.

A couple of days later I went on my own, went swimming saw him again asked him if he was alright, I went into the steam room and he followed me, we were alone and no we didn't have sex haha!!(sorry) but he asked about me, he was so so nice like a lovely personality, trouble is I didn't get his name, and he's on holiday, he's from somewhere about an hour from me. He said his friends are coming up today and I never saw him.

I can't get him out of my head, but I know I might never see him again. And if I do, I need to get his number or his name right?
But being shy and introverted and I'm not used to doing this sort of thing I need a but of help :) please? :D

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Short4Words

9 years ago

You could ask someone who works at the gym. Describe him and don't be afraid to drop a hint that there was a romantic connection. That might motivate them to want to break the rules and help a sweet girl out.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  I'm too shy to do that! I'd feel an idiot.
  
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    9 years ago
    
    Sometimes you have to be brave.
    
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      9 years ago
      
      I guess
      
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thegypsysailor

9 years ago

You might slip him a bit of paper, as you talk to him, w/your email address (text #?) on it. I'd suggest something a bit humorous and not at all heavy, like a limerick.
That way you won't have to confront him or embarrass him with a direct question, and if he emails (texts?) you, you'll know he likes you too.
Good luck.

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mountain-man82

9 years ago

Just strike up another conversation with him and bring up how close you guys live to eachother. Then either ask for his number or give him yours. Im shy too so I know your struggles, but you gotta dig deep and push past that.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  I will, if I see him again, that's the trouble I might not cause he's only on holiday. But I guess if he's interested he'll ask for mine?
  
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    9 years ago
    
    He could be shy himself. If you see hin again just try talking to him and see where it goes.
    
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      9 years ago
      
      Thanks!
      
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seakelp

9 years ago

The title of this post was misleading. I was expecting something much more depressing.

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- EccentricWeird
  
  9 years ago
  
  Don't you have some protocols to post or something?
  
  Also we already have a user named "dulse", so you should get a more unique name.
  
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    9 years ago
    
    You've parsed my bio incorrectly, friend. 'Posting protocol (singular)' as in the process one uses to post.
    
    I believe that there is room for two eukaryotic sessile marine photosynthesizers on IIN.
    
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      9 years ago
      
      Hoo u callin' sessile?!?
      
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dom180

9 years ago

Loads of guys go for shy girls. Have some self-belief.

If end up talking to him again and you're still interested, make sure you ask for his name and number.

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Johnnytherat

9 years ago

shy people annoy me.. i wonder how many shy dorks will thumb me down?

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- [Old Memory]
  
  9 years ago
  
  Loud super talkative people annoy me I wonder how many loud annoying fucks will thumbs me down?
  
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  - Johnnytherat
    
    9 years ago
    
    it appears the immovable object has met the unstoppable force.... everybody you might wanna stand back! *cracks knuckles*
    
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    - [Old Memory]
      
      9 years ago
      
      The giant Lucien approaches Johnnytherat the rat throws punches and scratches, Lucien yawns and grabs the rat and bites his head off and feeds the rest of the rat to Tommythecat.
      
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        9 years ago
        
        then a horde of rats consume you as revenge for killing their leader!
        
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GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!

9 years ago

Grab a man by his wiener and he'll do whatever you ask.

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TheGrownCapybaras

9 years ago

Make sure there's other people there other than his friend and ask for their number too

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[Old Memory]

9 years ago

boys get lonely too try and remember that

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Shackleford96

9 years ago

Trust me, if you get the chance, take it. You don't want to be that person that always wonders if/what it could have been had you done something more or different.

I still wonder...

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  How do I ask though ?
  
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  - Shackleford96
    
    9 years ago
    
    It's simple. If you two meet up and hang out for a while again, just before you or him have to part ways you can tell him you really enjoy talking with him and were wondering if he might want to keep in touch. Just be honest and straight up about it. Most guys really appreciate honesty and it's very admirable if a girl has the courage to ask first :)
    
    Good luck, I hope you two see each other again. Don't be afraid either!
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      Thanks ill try that!
      I hope we do too but I think he will be gone :( either that or all his mates will be there which is even more nerve racking
      
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