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My son is twelve,and I have caught him masturbating,but I know its normal so I'm OK with talking to him about,and he knows all the normal terms,like ejaculate and cum. Hes a good kid,he doesn't cuss or anything,but he came over to me today and asked, "Dad,last night,I ejaculated alot....And now I hurt down there,is that normal?" So,I found this place,and wanted to ask it.. Is it?
Don't listen to these uneducated fools, it will hurt if he is overmasturbating, he shouldn't be doing it too many times in one day. As far as the rude comments, disregard them it sounds like you are just trying to answer some questions for him, which is more then I can say for most parents.
You two above me are idiots. He said nothing about watching him masturbate.
Anyways.
A kid his age doesn't really have much in the tank, so it will get sore pretty quick. To see what I mean, try to masturbate like 10 times in 1 day and you'll feel exactly the same way he does.
Tell him to not do it quite as much and he should be fine. If not, see a doctor.
Agree its normal and yes it can hurt from over masturbation. If he leaves it alone he will be fine in a couple of days. Also he may have just rubbed it to hard or rubbed on it to hard tell him to be more gentle with it
Its fine. He is a normal kid with normal questions. Just be happy that he can talk openly with both you and his dad. It is a sign of a normal and functional family and you should be proud.
His pain is from masturbating too much and he is rather "drained" down below. Tell him to take a day or two off from masturbating and he will feel better. Once again, it is normal.
take him to the doc. but first you should see what it looked like it it looks bad take im to the doc other wise P.jelly
Ejaculated a lot, in terms of one ejaculation with a large quantity of semen, or a lot of ejaculations?
If he ejaculated more than 3 or 4 times, there will be some aching in the testicles and stomach, as well as tenderness of the penis from friction, and in the shaft from all the pressure/release. Use a bag of frozen peas on the area, it will help a bit.
If it was one ejaculation, this isn't normal, but also not cause for alarm, unless it persists for more than 24 hours.
Tell him to give it a rest for a bit, take it easy (not a lot of movement that would irritate the scrotum).
There's a bit of pain when you get low on your reserves (overmasturbating, 3-5+ times a day), which a 12 year old probably won't have much of to begin with. So yes it's normal, but it's probably not good behaviour of him to be masturbating so often - you should tell him to cut it down.
no it's not normal you should tell him to see a doc. it suppose to feel good. he may have done it over his same sex or 2 hard if it hurts. u not suppose to do it over the same sex so god makes it hurt u do it harder cuz u mind things guys are tougher so naturally when u do it over them it's hard and hurting. if the pain don't go go 2 a doc. (quack quack) and i hope i am making engilsh American sense. but if this normal problem don't go away then quake him 2 a doctor. get it instead of take quake cause it seems like quack quack and thats a doctor quake him to a quack (doctor )lol me clever . anyway he may have his balls hurting but it should go after a bit. it hurts cause if u do it too long u need more sperm and there is none after the 2nd time consecutively . so instead of it feeling good it hurts and it can be a painful not so pleasurable but alright experience. it won't kill it won't b 2 pleasure city but it b alright. it should feel like it got kicked in the balls or the football got kicked there. if it's different pain go to a prof or GP asap SRY I MEAN DOC OR GP
why the fuck is your son even telling you he masterbated that much, that is fucking freaky