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I just caught my sister and my husband in bed having sex.
They "Claim" it was only the first time. I suspect this has been going on for quite some time, but have no proof. What do I do?
| Yes, Drop it | 38 | |
| No, Sue the mother fucker | 49 | |
| No, Sue your sister | 11 |
Drop it for now.
Buy hidden cameras for the bedroom.
Secretly record his infidelity.
Find a good lawyer, and present the evidence.
Divorce and leave his cheating ass with nothing.
Send all the footage to his friends and family.
Never talk to your sister again.
At least that's how I'll do it.
Can you sue people for having an affair? Is that an American thing?
Leave your husband. Your marriage can never recover from this, so don't waste your time trying.
I think it can override a Prenup. If they cheat you can take more than was signed away
Even though the legal racket in the USA has been very effective at creating a system where people can sue if you give them a nasty look, most US states only allow a person to launch a civil lawsuit against a spouse in very limited circumstances. In most places, the OP couldn't even sue her sister.
I'm pretty sure most lawyers would get out the divorce forms if someone came to them with this complaint.
Divorce your husband and cut all contact with your sister. Chances are this ain't the first time they did this and it won't be the last if you forgive them.
Id tell them both they are pieces of shit, leave, and take all the $$ you can get from him.
Gosh what a betrayal on two ends. That's terrible! I don't think you can sue your sister, but you could take your husband to divorce court and take him to the cleaners.
Cheaters suck. Hide a camera and tape them fucking, then send it to your parents, to show them what a bitch your sister is.
Then divorce the asshole, go lesbian and tell everyone he turned you gay.
WHETHER ITS THE FIRST TIME OR NOT, A NORMAL PERSON WHO CARES AND LOVES THEIR SPOUSE OR SIBLING WOULDNT DO SUCH THING TO HURT THEM! THATS SICK!
Ridiculous to give only the options of letting it go, or going legal nuclear.
I propose a third way, the first step of which is sitting your husband and sister down - in separate places at different times - and having a conversation with each of them that in both cases starts with something along the lines of, "Why the fuck did you do this?"
Cut off her skin and wear it like a suit next time you are gonna have sex with him
Straight up I have zero idea what movie you are talking about. I saw one here she cut scalps off was horrifying I couldnt finish that movie
I wish I could remember the name. Anyway it was about a white man lost somewhere in the snow. He meets two native women (a daughter and mother) He falls in love with the daughter while the mother sits back and gets very jealous. In the end while the guy was away hunting or some shit, the mother killed her daughter, cut off her face and stuck it on her own head, she waited in bed for the guy to return to try and trick him into fucking her, as he started fucking her he noticed something wrong (it was dark and they were in a tent/tp thing)..
They both knew what they were doing was wrong and hurtful but did it anyway. They ain't worth your time
I'm going to go ahead and say drop it, not because what the sister did is acceptable but because OP doesn't seem all that bothered by it. Maybe she can see herself doing the same thing, maybe she has done something like it in the past. If she's not devastated by what happened, and doesn't view the sister as dangerous and needing to be cut out of her life, it is best to salvage the relationship with the sister and avoid the stress a broken sibling relationship will cause their parents and other family.
The husband will need to be jettisoned unless they have kids together, and maybe even then; and under no circumstances should he ever be trusted again. It doesn't matter if OP can put herself in his shoes. The line he crossed goes way beyond mere cheating, and indicates a profound lack of sense and self-control. She should leave him not because he wronged her but because he will always be a source of chaos and uncertainty. However she should bow out as gracefully as possible, and create the impression that his infidelity is not the reason, otherwise he may try to stir up as much drama as he can on his way out.
I fail to see why it matters if this was the first time or not. Should of punched your sister and your dude.
You walk in room and bust them having sex "what the hell guys" you say as you pull back the sheets, your husband looks up with fluttering eyes "hi babe, look I'm sorry, but don't worry this is the only time so it doesn't matter" you smile in a relaxed way and and wipe your brow "thats totally fine guys, finish up and come have a cup of tea... just don't do it again" your sis and husband look up at you like a child looks at its parent just before it gets ice cream and they say "oh no we promise not to do it again, we swear"
So, whats a trailer pad currently rent for?
Figured you'd know.
Why would it matter how many times your white trash sister cheated with your trailer trash husband?
Take them to one of the daytime shows and sort it out.
You get a free trip.
Bored people get free entertainment.
Only their first time? ONLY? Oh well then, it's nothing. You should wait until their third or fourth time before doing something about it! You should leave him right now.
How can you sue her? I wouldn't drop it; I would be mega pissed, but surely that laws of your country don't allow you to successfully sue her over this?
In some states here in the United States one can sue a mistress, or lover of a spouse for something known as alienation of affection. As you can imagine I am not adverse to such lawsuits. I of course did not partake of such legal action as I lacked the funds to fuel the legal fees, and possible private investigator costs. I dunno if OP could afford to pursue an alienation of affection lawsuit against her sister, or if it's even a thing in her jurisdiction. There's also the issue of the emotional cost of attempting to sue her sister in a court of law, I imagine that it could be quite draining, yet satisfying if she should win. Of course I also tend to think that someday Karma will take a big bite out both her sister's, and her husband's asses.