My sister fucked my husband, should i ignore it?

I just caught my sister and my husband in bed having sex.
They "Claim" it was only the first time. I suspect this has been going on for quite some time, but have no proof. What do I do?

Yes, Drop it 38
No, Sue the mother fucker 49
No, Sue your sister 11
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Comments ( 65 )
  • Tealights

    Drop it for now.
    Buy hidden cameras for the bedroom.
    Secretly record his infidelity.
    Find a good lawyer, and present the evidence.
    Divorce and leave his cheating ass with nothing.
    Send all the footage to his friends and family.
    Never talk to your sister again.

    At least that's how I'll do it.

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    • d0esnormalmatter

      Holy shit best reply by far. I was gonna answer something else but nvm!

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    • RoseIsabella

      I like how you think!

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    • LornaMae

      Hahuhahuhaha! hey, Tealights, did you catch the Terry-something (what's the actual name?) virus???

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  • litelander8

    Kill both of them.

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    • KholatKhult

      No joke if I ever got cheated on by a SPOUSE
      I’d have to kill them

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      • LornaMae

        So, if it were just the fianceé it would be fine????

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        • KholatKhult

          Well if I killed my spouse AND my fiancée for cheating I’d only have my girlfriend left :( !

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          • LornaMae

            Hehehe! You funnyman, you! :P

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      • Aethylfritha

        I wouldnt kill them but i might poison them with soap and beat them just a lil with a bat.

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  • SwickDinging

    Can you sue people for having an affair? Is that an American thing?

    Leave your husband. Your marriage can never recover from this, so don't waste your time trying.

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    • Mammal-lover

      I've never heard of it

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    • KholatKhult

      I think it can override a Prenup. If they cheat you can take more than was signed away

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    • Boojum

      Even though the legal racket in the USA has been very effective at creating a system where people can sue if you give them a nasty look, most US states only allow a person to launch a civil lawsuit against a spouse in very limited circumstances. In most places, the OP couldn't even sue her sister.

      I'm pretty sure most lawyers would get out the divorce forms if someone came to them with this complaint.

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    Divorce your husband and cut all contact with your sister. Chances are this ain't the first time they did this and it won't be the last if you forgive them.

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    • Aethylfritha

      I agree! I feel bad because, she must be used to being treated like dirt to even consider ignoring it.
      Id fucking put dish soap in both their food and then laugh as they crap themselves.

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      • RoseIsabella

        I'm certainly not adverse to your plans for their explosive diarrhea.

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      • Nikclaire

        Sounds like you may have experience doing that. 🤣

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        • Aethylfritha

          Lol my mom seriously considered it when my dad cheated.

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  • Aethylfritha

    Id tell them both they are pieces of shit, leave, and take all the $$ you can get from him.

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  • cupcake_wants

    Gosh what a betrayal on two ends. That's terrible! I don't think you can sue your sister, but you could take your husband to divorce court and take him to the cleaners.

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  • Nikclaire

    Cheaters suck. Hide a camera and tape them fucking, then send it to your parents, to show them what a bitch your sister is.

    Then divorce the asshole, go lesbian and tell everyone he turned you gay.

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    • d0esnormalmatter

      That escalated quickly

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      • Nikclaire

        I'm not fond of cheating.

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        • d0esnormalmatter

          I'm not either but I wouldn't have turned gay as a solution loool.

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  • bandit12

    Leave your husband and disown your sister

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  • lookatyourself

    WHETHER ITS THE FIRST TIME OR NOT, A NORMAL PERSON WHO CARES AND LOVES THEIR SPOUSE OR SIBLING WOULDNT DO SUCH THING TO HURT THEM! THATS SICK!

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  • Fugazi,again

    My girlfriend had sex with my boyfriend

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  • john66669

    divorce the fucker and disown the sister

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  • Boojum

    Ridiculous to give only the options of letting it go, or going legal nuclear.

    I propose a third way, the first step of which is sitting your husband and sister down - in separate places at different times - and having a conversation with each of them that in both cases starts with something along the lines of, "Why the fuck did you do this?"

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  • Mammal-lover

    Cut off her skin and wear it like a suit next time you are gonna have sex with him

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    • --

      I seen that movie! Wasn't it just her face though?

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      • Mammal-lover

        Straight up I have zero idea what movie you are talking about. I saw one here she cut scalps off was horrifying I couldnt finish that movie

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        • --

          I wish I could remember the name. Anyway it was about a white man lost somewhere in the snow. He meets two native women (a daughter and mother) He falls in love with the daughter while the mother sits back and gets very jealous. In the end while the guy was away hunting or some shit, the mother killed her daughter, cut off her face and stuck it on her own head, she waited in bed for the guy to return to try and trick him into fucking her, as he started fucking her he noticed something wrong (it was dark and they were in a tent/tp thing)..

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          • Mammal-lover

            Jesus christ, that's all kinds of fucked

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  • RoseIsabella

    Sue them both!

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    • Jennifer21

      Sue them for what......fucking? It’s just sex, get over it!

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      • Aethylfritha

        Actually...there are some old laws which allow a spouse to sue the person cheating with their spouse.
        Also why get married if youre gonna cheat? If you wanna fuck everything fine but dont make fake wedding vows.

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        • RoseIsabella

          Yeah, alienation of affection. 👍🏻

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          • Aethylfritha

            Yes! Thank you

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            • RoseIsabella

              You're very welcome!

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  • KholatKhult

    .... why would you ignore something like this

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  • trexagireve

    If he didn't cum inside her dose not count as cheating

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  • meyeke

    Join in

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  • Unknown_player

    They both knew what they were doing was wrong and hurtful but did it anyway. They ain't worth your time

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  • einexile

    I'm going to go ahead and say drop it, not because what the sister did is acceptable but because OP doesn't seem all that bothered by it. Maybe she can see herself doing the same thing, maybe she has done something like it in the past. If she's not devastated by what happened, and doesn't view the sister as dangerous and needing to be cut out of her life, it is best to salvage the relationship with the sister and avoid the stress a broken sibling relationship will cause their parents and other family.

    The husband will need to be jettisoned unless they have kids together, and maybe even then; and under no circumstances should he ever be trusted again. It doesn't matter if OP can put herself in his shoes. The line he crossed goes way beyond mere cheating, and indicates a profound lack of sense and self-control. She should leave him not because he wronged her but because he will always be a source of chaos and uncertainty. However she should bow out as gracefully as possible, and create the impression that his infidelity is not the reason, otherwise he may try to stir up as much drama as he can on his way out.

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  • --

    I fail to see why it matters if this was the first time or not. Should of punched your sister and your dude.

    You walk in room and bust them having sex "what the hell guys" you say as you pull back the sheets, your husband looks up with fluttering eyes "hi babe, look I'm sorry, but don't worry this is the only time so it doesn't matter" you smile in a relaxed way and and wipe your brow "thats totally fine guys, finish up and come have a cup of tea... just don't do it again" your sis and husband look up at you like a child looks at its parent just before it gets ice cream and they say "oh no we promise not to do it again, we swear"

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  • TerriAngel

    So, whats a trailer pad currently rent for?
    Figured you'd know.
    Why would it matter how many times your white trash sister cheated with your trailer trash husband?
    Take them to one of the daytime shows and sort it out.
    You get a free trip.
    Bored people get free entertainment.

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  • Iszzy123

    Idk go for a jog, sleep and pray on it

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  • JellyBeanBandit

    Only their first time? ONLY? Oh well then, it's nothing. You should wait until their third or fourth time before doing something about it! You should leave him right now.

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  • bigbudchonga

    How can you sue her? I wouldn't drop it; I would be mega pissed, but surely that laws of your country don't allow you to successfully sue her over this?

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    • RoseIsabella

      In some states here in the United States one can sue a mistress, or lover of a spouse for something known as alienation of affection. As you can imagine I am not adverse to such lawsuits. I of course did not partake of such legal action as I lacked the funds to fuel the legal fees, and possible private investigator costs. I dunno if OP could afford to pursue an alienation of affection lawsuit against her sister, or if it's even a thing in her jurisdiction. There's also the issue of the emotional cost of attempting to sue her sister in a court of law, I imagine that it could be quite draining, yet satisfying if she should win. Of course I also tend to think that someday Karma will take a big bite out both her sister's, and her husband's asses.

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  • raisinbran

    Did you let him finish at least? He could sue you for blue balls.

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  • randypete

    make a threesome

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  • Kermitt

    Sisters love is unconditional.
    Why can't you both be happy?

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    • d0esnormalmatter

      Fuck you ya god damn mouth breathing moron

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    • Cuntsiclestick

      Just because a person shares the same blood doesn't mean they're obligated to have them in their life. The Ops sister sounds like a real burden.

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