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For a few months now I feel like my sister doesn't care about me. She thinks I'm acting lonely but I'm not. I really am lonely. I don't have that big sister I need. Sometimes I wonder if she would even care if I died. If I did die, would she even come to my funeral? Tell me if it's normal that I think she hates me.
I don't care either.
Your sister seems like a cool gal.
I would love to sit there being all apathetic with her.
"Oh look. A cat."
"I don't care."
"Me neither."
"Oh look, a tornado."
"I don't care."
"Me neither."
"Oh look, a tornado of cats!"
"Who cares?"
"Not me."
*apathetically kiss with tongues*
Perhaps you're putting way too much on your sister. She's not responsible for your being lonely, just because she's your sister. Family aren't built in friends, they're family.
Get off your butt and get out there and meet some people; no one is going to knock on your door and ask to be your friend.
I just want her to be there for me when I need her. I don't need her to be a friend. Also. I do have friends that would do a lot for me, but they aren't the same as family. Family will stick by you till the end, but they still have to even if they don't want to. What's the point in having a sister stick beside you if they will only hurt you?
It's normal to think things like that, but it doesn't necessarily mean she hates you either.
Some people are just more distant than others. I've had people think I hated them before when I actually liked them. I'm just very emotionally unavailable. It doesn't mean I hate them, I just don't need the same things.