My sex drive spontaneously stopped.

Back when I was in early puberty, I kept my masturbation "restrained" to 3 to 4 times a week. Until 2 weeks ago, this would have seemed an EPIC feat.

Prior to two weeks ago for years, I had to have a bat once a day minimum. If I didn't, sexual thoughts would distract me too much to work.

Since that one day two weeks ago, I often feel no desire for sex at all, and go days without orgasms with little to no effort at all. I'm speculating this is a symptom of puberty ending (I'm a 19yo male).

Has this ever happened to you people?

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  • 53739

    Don't think about it. You can't really explain sex drive or lust in scientific terms anyway, except for the whole procreation and passing on our genes to the next generation argument. Humans are the among the only animals, the other being bonobo chimpanzees or dolphins, to have sex for pleasure.

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  • prasatko

    It hasn´t happened to me yet (I´m a 36 yo male), so I am still waiting for my puberty to end:)

    You´ve written that it happened two weeks ago, so chances are it is just a phase. Have there been any other events in your life which might be the reason? For example, physical illness, or medication (e.g. antidepressants can cause changes in sexual desire), radical changes of diet, daily routine, drugs etc...?

    Anyway, I think that you do not have to worry or obsess with it if it does not cause any troubles in your life. And probably, sooner or later your sex drive will return in some form again.

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