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This is also school problem. My mates think i'm a lesbian and i have a lesbian in my class who fancies me. (This is all becus i was slightly tomboyish i got 3 brothers). Anyway yea, because they take the mickey so much i often feeling like hurting them, but usually take it out on myself. Punch the wall, slight cuts on arms. Nothing serious like slitting wrists or burning myself. It really gets me depressed though. Any ideas on how i can stop this and convince them i'm not gay?! Please help!

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  • SomeRandomPerson
    14 years ago

    ... I don't mind if my classmates/friends would think I'm a lesbian, my friend and I even jokes about it to other people. Even if they seriously think that I am a lesbian, I play around with them.

    I don't get things like that making me depressed because... Well, that's how high school works. You'll have to deal with it yourself.

    Just, don't go hurting yourself. If it goes out of hand and rumors start n' spread all over the school. Make something about them up and say you heard it from some-one else. Just make sure you'll be able to lie. Not that I do those kind of things myself.

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  • Anon345
    14 years ago

    Thanks everyone. All your advice worked, nobody teases me anymore. I got a good thing going with a guy now too, soo everything's going great so far in school. Thanks again!

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  • nothing2
    14 years ago

    yeah just talk to guys.

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  • oskilover18
    15 years ago

    Going out with a guy won't stop them from making fun of you. Not that I really get why it bothers you. Who cares what they think? But if it really does bother you, tell them in private that it does and ask them to stop. Unless you're in high school, which it sounds like you are, then everyone is an asshole. Just take solace that high school sucks for everyone, and start counting down the days till you're in college.

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  • OddOneOut
    15 years ago

    i have some sugestions
    1) get with a guy
    2) explain what you do to yourself cos of what your "friends" say.
    3) maybe dress girlyer
    4) start skitting pom poms (just a joke)

    im tomboyish usualy, im petiet but play rugby, always in jeans and converse, only wear a skirt to school if i can be bothered. always hugging ym female mates, hardly ever the boys, no-one calls me a les, spesh not my mates, if they did id f**cking slap em, if your friends are making you feel that bad they are a bunch of c**ts and aint worth it, ditch them get new mates.

    and when was your last bf ?

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  • crazy05
    15 years ago

    go out with a guy !

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  • MapleSyrup
    15 years ago

    Shake it off, you know what you are and you know what you aren't. Practice with this frame of mind and i think you will be fine.

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  • Hosikage
    15 years ago

    How the hell do cutting yourself make you less angry?!
    Last i checked i jumped around in circles swearing the previous time i cut myself.

    Get a boyfriend! Simple! And stop hurting yourself! Its retarded and most guys i know hate Emo. (they consider self injury of free will Emo and i do too)

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    • OddOneOut
      15 years ago

      only sterio type emos cut them selves, and thats just the pathetic ones. im pretty emo, and have only tryed to cut myslef once and that was when i was chav cos i was realy depressed from being bullied. clearly you know nothing about labbleing, lean the facts, and the proper emos are usualy really hot, i know alot of normal lads that think emo girls are the hottest around.

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  • Atlas
    15 years ago

    How do you know that your not lesbian? Have you tried it? I'd give a shot, and you may enjoy it. I hear they are better in bed anyways.

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  • callumjaycranstoun
    15 years ago

    look dont hert your sellf i mean i think i might be gay and i dont no what to do u must be haveing a realy hard time tell them u wanna tallk no jokes and say with a stright face look im not gay to i can help i think i no what u r going throw get back to me on this

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    • Anon345
      15 years ago

      Thanks for the advice! Kind of worked i think it got thru to them, but i dnt think i need to worry anymore a) becus of ur advice and b) i'm gettin serious with this guy now so everythings great!!! Thanks again, I O U

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  • Clansman147
    15 years ago

    Fuck a guy, video it and send it to them.

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  • Harry_head
    15 years ago

    You will get teased if you react badly they will do it all the more, Kids are cruel you got to turn it round and have some good one liners then laugh at them, I remember the kids that went round making fun and calling other kids gay when i was at school, later on it turned out they were gay or bi. You could get a boyfriend that would shut them up, good luck.

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  • zro7157
    15 years ago

    tell them if a wus lesbian ill wold due ur mom

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