My poor boyfriend

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My boyfriend and I survived a long distance relationship. We are now living together and I am 4 months pregnant. That's besides the fact, I just wanted to give you a background. So anyways, I HATE to cuddle!! I mean I despise it. I love him dearly but I just can't bring myself to lay on his shoulder and go to sleep. I feel horrible because he says that I ignore him. I feel like just sitting in bed with each other is plenty of affection. I'm not a fan of touching. Am I normal?

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  • kia106
    14 years ago

    WELL CUDDLING IS A NICE THING IT MAKES U FEEL LOVED

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  • Gidget
    13 years ago

    i love to cuddle during the day but when i sleep i like to be free my boyfriend falls asleep fast so he cuddles me when i get sick of it i gently pull away plus he gets cold sweats at nite and who wants to be cuddled up to that when ur trying to sleep

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  • mmaracle97
    14 years ago

    maybe you should just try kissing him in bed instead of the whole cuddling or full frontal.

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  • combatgal856
    14 years ago

    Are you sure it's not because you are pregnant and you're hormones are all over the place and you just want to be by yourself??
    ]If not then there is something wrong. Cuddles and touching is part of a relationship. You wouldd have not got pregnant otherwise

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Well you did get pregnant. And that involves a lot of intimate touching. So the cuddling you dislike may be pretty specific. I would rarely go to sleep holding my partner - too claustrophobic. Anyway - explore and find areas of physical intimacy that you are comfortable with. You're rightly concerned not to leave your partner feeling ignored.

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  • kitsune16
    14 years ago

    Thats perfectly normal. I myself am a big fan of cuddling, but I know plenty of people who hate stuff like that, even hugs.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    *physical intimacy

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