My personality keeps changing

I wish I could give you a hug.
Only the parts of your personality that you notice are changing, but I bet the core of who you are has stayed the same since you were a small child. Accept that you will NEVER be your father, and maybe he's not the ideal "man" to compare yourself with anyway.

Things will get A LOT better for you over the next decade of your life. Start getting to know You. A good way to do that is to start thinking about what your true aspirations and dreams were when you were a kid (not the dreams that others had for you). Then think about what your core values are today: what is your position on religion, politics, parenting, relationships, friendships? what qualities do you admire in others? what do you expect to get out of life? what sort of middle-aged person would you imagine yourself to grow into? what kind of people are your enemies? who are the people you want to have as friends? do you tolerate toxic relationships in your life, or do you cut them lose?

It's normal to change parts of who we are as we age. We are not static organisms; we are constantly interacting with our environment and learning new behaviors to adapt to that environment. You are not alone.

god, i think im going through that right now, its hard...but i told my mom about this and she said. " i dont fukkn care, i love you if your black or white, just dont act like a snob, act what makes YOU feel good." true enough im starting to be my own person. do things you wana do you know, like i love watching anime and piercing people lmao. slowly im getting myself back on my road.. get to know yourself and stop trying to be like everybody else, you will never be anybody but you...sounds harsh but it's the truth bro. * net hugs * :)

Sorry to hear that... Hope it gets better for you

thanks a lot guys. i get courage from all your comments. thanks.