My partner wont sleep with me

hi i have a terrible feeling that i am going to cheat on my partner,im a 28 yr old man.ive been with my girlfriend for seven yrs and have 2 children together,the problem is she wont have sex with me,i confront this issue allmost daily but she just shouts at me and gets angry.i do love her but its killing me that we only have sex a handfull of times a year and recently ive started calling her horrible names because of this which i hate myself for.I dont know what to do i lie awake for hours at nights just longing for some closeness.I really dont want to cheat but i dont know where to turn.Ive asked her if she ok or if its me who is the problem but she just shouts at me or says shes tired.I understand we both work but i do everything with the kids and also the tidying up,i also take her for meals and to the pictures but nothing,,,,,,please help

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  • alexisfreak

    SHE might be cheating, dude.

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  • JessMe89

    She's cheating

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  • tehnoob

    maybe you smell too bad?

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  • Jodiee

    yeah she might be cheating , or shes hit the stage every women hits , the cold stage , were she wont find you funnyy no more , doesnt want you cock and doesnt want no hugs all about her and her , i hope i dont turn in a bitch like that , just get her told your her husband... you have needs that you only want her to forfill ... just tell her man , otherwise its your hand if you really dont want to cheat

    and tbh i wouldnt cheat cos then you will just be more frustrated cos of all the shit that has just happened ..

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  • uzy007

    what wrong with the bitch! .. sit her down and talk to her WHY she dnt wna ?? i it cos he scared or her religion or her pusy hurts. if its medical prob then take her to the doctors. if this dnt work. while yur asleep gently arouse her touch her vagina then slowy kis her then fuck her.

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  • peterrabbyt3

    Get rid of the useless cunt!

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  • Shamanic

    come on move one shes just having Great sex with someone else simple as that.

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  • SpontaneousSteve

    Do exactly this.
    Show her this post you posted and let
    Her read all the comments. She should understand you and then she will tell you what's going on. Because there's no way out of this for her. There's more you can do but this is just 1 option.. From the top of my head haha

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  • HugeDong87

    just stick your penis inside her while she's asleep.

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  • adiasmommy63

    Try to not breach the subject EVERY day. Take the time to show her your interested in what makes her happy - take things in your relationship back to that new stage of learning about each other (which is also when you can't get enough of each other). When she sees you asking why she doesn't want sex then it comes across like all you care about are your needs - if you drop it for awhile and concentrate on things that interest her then she will WANT to give you what she thinks will make YOU happy in return!

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  • Ok first never cheat and maybe she just dosent wanna go throught kinds so maybe a condum would
    Work

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  • deepthought33

    It sounds like she could be suffering from postpartum depression. Even if it has been years, if she never got help or counseling it could still be greatly affecting her. I've also been told that the thyroid gland can actually stop functioning after childbirth so it would be a good idea for her to get a thyroid test...hormonal imbalances can do some pretty crazy stuff to a person.

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  • Kat444

    Has she always been like this? In long term relationships, people need to take care of each others needs, and she's failing to take care of yours. You should tell her that you deserve more, that you're not being unreasonable to expect sex at least once a week. If she refuses to budge on the issue, you might want to end the relationship, because it would be better to do that than to cheat.

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  • DiscoDuck

    Chances are she is sleeping with someone else already. Many women find it hard to sleep with more than one man at a time, so someone has to get put on hold.

    Guess who's holding?

    If I were you I would go ahead and satisfy my natural human needs for intimate contact....discretely. You should not feel guilty or bad for doing so either.

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  • MashiMarshmello

    Maybe she's having her (eehhem...) "Monthly hormonal mood swings". I suggest you tell her how you feel about it. If it doesn't work, get a counselor. :3 Good Luck ;D

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  • hotchickie81

    Maybe you two might need some kind of couples counselling or something like that.

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  • shortbrit22

    eh well .. you're getting some crazy comments man but it sounds like your girlfriend/wife needs to get her shit straight and need sto sit with you and talk about those thigns .. are the kids putting in the way? is she getting stressed out about soall things? sometimes when a woman is depressed they can make it to where they dont'w anna have sex or do anything .. (my experience and still working on it .. i'm trying .. just so weird)

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