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Is it normal my current partner just hates doggie--says it makes her wanna poo. Been together more the 7 months but I only get missionary.
I want a bit of variety, but she just won't do it.
It sounds like it makes her uncomfortable. There are more than 2 positions. Try something else.
She sounds like a Jesus approved good Christian woman. Don't attempt to corrupt her with your heathen techniques.
Nah, if she was truly Jesus-endorsed, genuine Christian girl, she wouldn't be having vaginal sex until she was married. Those girls have their boyfriends give it to them up the the ass, because everyone knows they can do that and Jesus will still consider them a virgin when they walk down the aisle.
I'm a guy and I hate doggy style... I get no enjoyment out of it... All I see is an ass and her head moving back and forth... No face, no emotion, nothing...
When I'm with a girl, I want to see her face, her expressions. That's what drives me wild. It's more intimate when you can see each others faces. It's just better.
It's never been a position I've been keen on, for exactly the reasons you cite.
But some guys like it for those same reasons. They don't have to really connect with the person they're having sex with; it's just a warm pussy they're thrusting into, and what's going on with the woman it belongs to is irrelevant to them.
And it has to be said that some women like it for the same reasons; sometimes, a woman just doesn't want to have to look at the guy she's ended up with. For some women, rear-entry provides a lot of stimulation to the G-spot. There are also women who are extremely self-conscious about how they look during sex, and if the guy can't see her, that's one less thing for her to worry about. If she can't see the guy, she can fantasise that he's whoever she likes. And if a guy is doing her from behind, she's really not in control of what's happening, and some women get off on the whole "being taken" thing.
Like I said, I'm not really into doggie, but if I was with a woman who really enjoyed it, it would be part of our position repertoire. If I was with a woman who really disliked it, I'd suggest other things we could do.
There are tons of other positions aside from those two. look through a book of sex positions. Some examples are, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, scissoring, laying on your sides with you entering her from behind. You will just have to see how open she is to experimenting.
She dislikes it, so you should respect that.
It's not unknown for women who haven't done a lot of solo experimentation to be confused about what they're feeling "down there". I have read of women who confused the sensations of an approaching orgasm with the sudden need to urinate for a long time. But maybe your girlfriend's nerve-wiring is just arranged such that the sensation of something in her anus triggers strong feelings that she needs to have a bowel movement.
As others have said, if you think the only options are missionary and doggy, then you're limiting yourself severely. If the fundamental problem is her being very conservative and inhibited when it comes to sex, then you need to have a serious conversation with her and then decide just how important sexual variety is to you. Sex shouldn't be all a serious relationship is about, but both people being completely satisfied with that aspect of their relationship can make it a lot better.
Personally, I think cowgirl is great, and all the women I've been involved with have too.
Check out this website:
https://sexinfo101.com/positions
You would not believe the number of men especially those from older generations know that women have orgasms! Luckily just about everyone knows that women can and do have orgasms. I remember sitting on the front porch of a relative with my then father-in-law with some other guys and the girl next door whose bedroom was downstairs was masturbating. She had our full attention! My father-in-law said he didn't believe women did that. I almost choked on my beer. 😂
I'm in my sixties, so I guess I'm probably a member of the "older generations" you mention.
Kinsey published his best-selling reports before I was born, Masters and Johnson published their best-seller about sex at around the time when I started to really be aware of the topic, and The Joy of Sex - another book that sold in huge numbers - was published when I was in my late teens.
If any guy of my age doesn't know that women have orgasms, how to help a woman have one, or that women masturbate, it can only be because of either a total lack of curiosity or wilful ignorance. The information has been out there in easily accessible forms for a very long time.
Hey, everyone has preferences. If you want something more fun, I say ask her what crazy stuff she’s into.
And if shes the most vanilla person around, maybe its time you find someone new
No no no. Accept her for who she is. I bet she has lots of other qualities that make her a keeper.
Hah. No, I’ve found that every single person who has any interest in sex in the first place is warrant to bring out some crazy shit after a while of being bored
May be true, but if she doesnt like your rainbow swirl with sprinkles on top, how is it fair to you?
If whatever you're doing makes her want to poo, that's not doggy style, that's anal and lots of women don't like it, especially with someone who seems as ignorant and inconsiderate as you
Make her. Show her your male dominance by hanging her upside down out of a window until she submits. For bonus points, do it somewhere where birds shit on the window a lot.
I am a guy I don't care for doggie style myself. I love missionary and cow girl
An ex girlfriend didn't like doggie style she said I went to deep and and it was painful.
You sound like a ver ignorant bf who's just there for sex... You should be happy with what you get!!ITS HER BODY NOT YOURS AND IF SHE SAYS NO IT MEANS NO!!!!
I stand corrected. But a lot of Islamics follow Sharia Law and if the husband wants doggie sex the wife must obey or according to Sharia Law he is allowed to beat her for disobeying him.
Although in my opinion that is wrong! If a guy lays a hand on his wife he doesn't love her. To be used as a slave is very wrong IMHO.
There are other sex positions than doggie style just try communicating while youre having sex
This us how. Got my ex-wife to beg me for doggy style sex.I woke up and her ass was facing me,she didn't have no panties.I got a huge hard on and snuggle up to her,and slowly started to ease my cock inside her, she was aroused and the more I went in her pussy,the more she push her ass towards me, wanting it all the way in.Then I started to tease her, I pull out completely and just rub the head against her hot pussy lips.She moan and beg for me to fuck her but I continue to tease her.Finally I could tell she could not stand it any more so I grab a pillow, turn her on her stomach pillow underneath her and glided my cock into her begging pussy.She was ready.So I fuck her doggy style as horny as she was.It was only one of the few times she let me fuck her that way so I took advantage of it and fuck her hard.