My partner doesn't want to have sex often

There are many ways to get satisfied sexually.

dont put up with that shit. she can live without sex . doesn't mean you have to. it just means she doesn't give a flying fuck about your needs

But it may be normal for her. Different people have different levels of libido. My wife likes a lot of it and virtually any time of day or night.

Run, fast.

My ex-wife was like that. Just not into sex. I wasn't even a sex fiend, but, did want it every so often, sometimes more. What ended up happening was temptation got the best of me (not why we got divorced..she never knew about other women), and, since even when we did have sex, it was very mechanical and blah, I started going elsewhere.

Met a hot, slender/fit-bodied latino woman at a bookstore one afternoon, we hit it off, she was sexy as hell, and, not that night but soon..I was at her duplex, jumping on her like crazy. Kept it up for months until she changed jobs and moved. Then, finally giving in with my business associate, who most people thought I was fucking anyway, started up with her. Same reason..My then-wife just wasn't into sex, and I have needs like anyone else. Funny thing about her was after our first time, even she said "Well, they all thought so...Now we are".

Completely normal. Just wait for when she wants it and make it great for her. She will want it more