My only friend is me

I have never truly had any friends. I talk to myself all the time in my head and even have debates with myself over stuff. I know this may not be normal but does anyone else do this?

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  • emptiness

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    Let's be friends, I'm not even kidding.
    The debating and talking with yourself is definately normal, but honestly, not the "never truly had any friends" part.
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    Seriously, I'll be your friend. No joke.
    It can get a bit lonely if you don't have any friends. If not lonely, than at least boring.

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  • Nokiot9

    Friends are vastly overrated. Just more people to fuck u over and let u down. Keep ur expecataions at rock bottom and you'll never be dissappointed. Now, that's not to say do away with ambition and go all apathetic emo... just watch urself

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  • soulflyer9

    I know this is going to sound cliche, but I feel the same way. I do have a lot of friends, but trust me, it doesn't really help if you don't like yourself. making friends for me is like a compulsion than true friendship. I guess what I'm trying to say is that there are people out there who might look like they're happy but they might not be. bottom line is; you're not alone.

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  • themysteriousfrenchfry

    i know where your coming from and its not fun or cool. i still don't have many friends, i only have 1 but i'm hoping i'll have two
    I really want to be your friend, i'm kidding either. I don't want others to feel the way i use to. So i'm hoping you'll be my friend too.
    yeah it really does get lonely and frustrating, because your wondering why you don't have friends. But i'm hoping you'll change that because i want to be a friend of yours :)

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  • hello_there

    I debate with myself all the time and frankly I am extremely detached from my friends. Some people just are. (However, no matter what it looks like you do have friends that care about you)

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  • sheat

    okay being friends with yourself and talking o yourself s not normal because you have to be involve with people a\if not your not going to social and not trusting anyone and you have to have friends and well the trust comes by itself just be open and give a chance to someone to hear you nothing happens because your keeping your thoughts, feelings to yourself not good. when ever you want to cry is good to have someone their for you (shoulder)..

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  • youre not alone. i do that too :) when ive problems i always keep it in me because ive no one to talk to. its kinda sad but i get used to it.

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  • dontH8love

    hahaha yeah i do that too :)

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  • cgirl123456

    Hopefully soon you will find people that you truly connect to! I hope so.

    I was friendless for a long time, and though I know a lot of people, there is only one or so who I'd call a friend.

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  • SilentHeart

    I have no friends. Never had any true friends my entire life, and now I'm 20 and more alone then ever. Sometimes you feel like you are going insane, but it truly is normal to feel that way when you have no one to talk to but yourself. Trust me when I say that I know how you feel.

    -Mike

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    • Errwat123

      Same here except I'm coming to 21. Now this might sound pathetic and a whole other debate for another time. I so desperately wanted a friend that I actually believed a working girl I visited was my friend. Yes I know I also question why I belived it and why I even went. Not to say that there aren't cases out there but what are the odds. I only knew her for what 2 days. Yes I know I sound pathetic. But I've never truly had a friend so I can't really say I know how it feels to have one.

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  • The_Truth_Hurts_Doesnt_It

    Christians talk to people who aren't there every time they pray. What you're doing it "normal" if you consider that the vast majority of humans are religious.

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  • O course you should be your own best friend. And there are things you will only ever want to keep to yourself. But maybe you could cultivate some relationships if you are lonely.

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  • theguyfromthenetherlands

    I don't have any real friends too, but i am very individual. Never needed anybody and i had many mates, but it was only friendship because i sat in their class or something. I did had a real friend in life once, but didnt spoke him ever since he had a girlfriend. After he broke up he came back to me after not looking at me for a half year. I said u didnt needed me then and i dont need you now.

    =) What i wanna say with this is, it's normal. Some people are more individual and others need friends!

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  • combatgal856

    I debate with myself and talk to myself in my head when no one else is around or when something is awkward or if I'm just feeling like keeping myself to myself. I have people I can talk to so I cannot say that I am my only friend. Hopefully you do have someone you can go to when things get serious.

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  • XXBuTtErFlIeSX

    i know how you feel the most comfortable place i have is in my head sadly haha sad right but ive made it my missin to change that join me and lets MAKE OUR LIVE BETTER AND EASIER FOR US AND NOT FOR OTHERS!!!=D

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  • ashleybbyx21

    im gunna say that you may have some problems , andyou should try to make more friends. but if your happy then keep doin what your doin , , , iguess

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  • calicopenguin

    Fuckin' get over yourself. I'm so sick of people acting like they're a target, like you're unloved. Quit writing post on this stupid site and go talk to your neighbor. Make some damn friends.

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