Ask Your Question today
I'm 21/f and I want to be tied up and domanated/domanate from being tied up. I'm afrade of what he will think if I ask my lover. since my last one seid I was gross and left me. what can I do to get what I want so where both happy and I don't scare him?
Hey good luck with it, I have a gf the same way. She hates me for it, really thinks I am gross and wants me to go to therapy.
I remember as far back as being 3 years old and thinking about bondage. I am an artist and do artwork now in secret under the name zantetsuken and nekustetnaz.
There is someone for everyone out there, just have to keep looking I guess.
Good luck from Cornwall, UK!
For God's sake, you last BF was a girl.
Tell him you would like to try it, and if he gets weird, you look at HIM like there is something wrong with him.
If you trust each other enough to take off all your clothes and have sex, why is there not enough trust to say this?
Just take one small step at a time. Tell him to hold your arms down when you have sex, and let him know that if feels good. Later, tell him you want to see what it feels like if your hands are tied down. Maybe, go into a sex shop with him, and buy some wrist straps. See how comfortable he is with this. You may need to take it slow with him. Give him positive feedback. If he is comfortable with this, then have him tie your legs down too.