My mother treats me like shit (vent/profanity)

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I'm having a bad night. Btw I'm 21 so this is mostly for venting I would also appreciate any comments if so.
I'm female and my mother treats me like shit. I'm getting real tired of it things have gotten worse. Despite myself she'll come after me when I could say numerous things to her I don't I try to remain calm now. I can't even remember one time I've honestly fought with her when this stuff happens which makes it even harder. As of now I'm just not saying anything after what's happened. Because she doesn't give an f about me anything I ever fucking tell her she doesn't believe me and won't listen. I'M TIRED OF HER BS. THE WORST PART IS HER STUPID PIECE OF SHIT THE MAN SHE MARRIED (STEPFATHER) GANGS UP WITH HER ON ME AND THOSE FUCKHEADS DON'T NEED TO FUCK WITH ME. THEY'LL LITERALLY TALK ABOUT ME WHEN I'M THERE SAYING SHIT. I FELT LIKE AFTER ALL THIS TIME SHE'S MADE ME A VERY ANGRY PERSON INSIDE AND to people I'm always as nice as can be. I'm not an angry person by nature anyway she's not understanding as my father is. SHE TOLD HIM SHIT ABOUT THINGS I'M GOING THROUGH AND MY DAD GOT PISSED AND WAS CURSING AT ME (He never does) SHE WAS ALSO ON THE PHONE MAKING REMARKS THAT HE'S CHEWING MY ASS OUT I CRIED THE HARDEST I EVER DID YESTERDAY. Then my Dad called me apologizing asking if I was okay. I don't blame him-I BLAME THAT FUCKING WHORE.

Ok I talked to my father after all the hard knocks and he asked me what was going on, etc. Then when I explained to him everything he ehard me and even told me that made sense.
When I told my mother she said "Bullshit!"
For instance for Christmas I got something for my mom and she just left it on the table. When I gave it to my father he thanked me and he was happy.

I'm just being driven out of my sanity here. Sorry about the language but you guys think my mother hates me?

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  • snarkygirl
    8 years ago

    Its OK you're just young. Hopefully one day you two will be closer.

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    • Marvelfan36
      8 years ago

      Yeah because I just don't honestly like the way things are now. She always has condescending remarks and I never get upset when she does that it's just one thing to tell my father something behind my back when I explained to her the situation she didn't even bothering telling him what I had told her. I know I was angry in my post but that's because not once have I lashed out at her or even cussed at her. When things like this happen I have to deal with it sometimes I don't say anything at all because in the past when I'm trying to talk honestly with her and no mean words or sharp language just for instance my situation calmly she says literally that I'm bsing. Which starts to anger me internally that I can be as nice as possible when she can be bitchy to me. Yeah hoping that too.

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  • ashieviews
    8 years ago

    From what it looks like, you seem more hurt than angry and it is completely understandable. It may seem like your mom is treating you poorly, it could be because of different factors (her own stress). Also, it sounds like your Step-Father is a douche. I hope you find a healthy way of dealing with this and I would suggest seeking counselling. I don't think you're "crazy" but I go to counselling and I find it helpful, a safe space to vent. Or if you have a trustworthy friend, I'd vent to them. Overall, I hope you find a way to deal with this unfortunate situation.

    Best of luck!

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  • YoungGunner
    8 years ago

    Run away for a few days,that scares the shit out of them

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  • Terrorabyss
    8 years ago

    Honestly, I also have a shitty relationship with my mom and I hate her. I don't know if yours hate you but you should attend therapy to help vent vecause either way she's you mother and you can't just get rid of her or anything

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    • Marvelfan36
      8 years ago

      Thanks for the advice :) Yeah I honestly would never wish ill or harm on her it's just this has been bothering me for quite some time. Therapy is a good idea in this case lol I've actually been there before not saying that-well I was pretty young when it happened when I went to therapy but yeah.

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  • Marvelfan36
    8 years ago

    Even my brother has to deal with this too so I'm not the only one. I've never talked mean to my mother the way she talks to me well I guess she can get away with it since she's my mother but even so the way she talks to me and treats me I don't deserve I've looked up articles about this and I know the truth.

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  • GrayHulk99
    8 years ago

    be nice to her. you really need to work on being kinder.

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    • Marvelfan36
      8 years ago

      To be honest I've never cursed at her this vent was based on how I was feeling on the inside she cusses at me all the time even when I'm calmly trying to talk to her even through her condescending remarks.

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  • iritating
    8 years ago

    sometimes people dont know how to appreciate some one, even i get angry when my mothers does something but then well at the end of the day shes my mother so i cant hate her :)

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