My mother is a b*tch?

my mother isn't a great mother she would Rather buy alcohol than food. i buy my own food.
she doesn't take me seriously. i am very well knowledge in nutrition. and she never believes me when i tell her things. i even plan to to be dietitian she thinks that i think i know a lot but i don't. she is rude to me. she just just doesn't care about my life. and expects me to listen to her.

i was reading this book and i wanted to talk to her about it. and she didn't say nothing when i said it. but when she started reading it that's all she wanted to talk about. that really bothered me.
that's how i know she didn't care.

my mom is on partial disability for her knees and she can do some stuff except long periods of sitting and walking. and so the government takes money off her cheque because i have a job and they take any income that coming to the house hold. and she doesn't care that she is taking my money. so she should be trying to get full disability and she doesn't try. all she has do is go to the doctors and complain. she sits on her Butt All Day. and she never cleans i do most of it!

i can't move out because i never have the money and it just sucks. i can't do nothing to help my self. i never have much money. all i have money is for my food and my cell bill.

its just unlivable to me. i hate living with her.

i know these aren't reasons to hate her but
i have to be honest i wouldn't cry if she died
Am i normal?

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Comments ( 12 )
  • familyguy63

    Drug her and tape yourself fucking the shit out of her! You can get the best of both worlds this way. You get to fuck her hard and put her in her place,and you get to blackmail her with the tape! She will be under control after you show it to her,and you can make her do nasty things!

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  • cupcake_wants

    buy your mom a giant dildo and spike her food with afrodesiacs and put a hidden camera in her room and put it on the internet and show her and tell her that's what she gets for being such a CUNT

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  • you think thats bad my mom pretty much stuffs her childhood life down my throat she makes me clean every second of every day i get threatened and cursed at for laughing because she said im copying my friends laugh which i wasnt i get slapped pretty much twice a week and she goes on a rampage when she comes home from work with a messed up house and blames it on me when i havent even been there the whole day i get yelled at and threatened each day for the smallest things i never even do anything bad

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    • thats not it my dad is fat lazy and rude he makes me do every thing and he gets mad at me when i dont want to share the little things that i do have and he constantly thinks im rolling my eyes he hasnt even been there half of my life he left when i was 1 and came back 8 years later he hits me and thats not the worst i have an older brother who hates me and the last goodbye i had was him cursing me out then he went to the military he doesnt even like talking to me on the phone my sister is bipolar and one minute we could be having fun and next she would be cursing me out so technically everyone in my family hates me i cant do anything about it and i get so angry but i cry when im angry and that makes an even worse situation because all they do is call me a cry baby then i get even angrier

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  • illusionist

    Sadly,I feel same....

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  • lovekills

    yes, its normal i feel it everyday but not now im heartbroken....

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  • You have a lot to grapple with. It is amazing that the state will deduct the earnings of a child from the parents disability welfare. It should be changed, but that is not an immediate answer.

    You have positive career plans and ideas about your life. That is great. Do you think you could get support from a youth serving organization or school counsellor for some support & around planning to move out?

    I can see why you feel poorly about your mother. She is of little support & her life is not much of an example for you. As you become more independent of her you will need and be disappointed by her far less. I think you may be better able to accept her limitations. But because you need her now, it is hard to not be let down.

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    • smoldingfire

      Right now i just stand her. but you say this made me realize!
      thanks

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  • stlolth

    Some parents don't grow or become wiser and better through parenthood, they remain the selfish self-centered post-teenagers they always were. It's just important to know it's not your fault, but theirs. Believe in yourself and pity your mother for being a small person that can't help herself.

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  • nobody94

    when she is at the doctors move the fuck out! that is what i did when we have the same backstory , abusive mothers

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  • assen

    tisk tisk, those ARENT reasons to hate your mother. you've got anger bottled up inside for something else, you gotta figure it out and work on it.

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  • Justin_Case

    My mom passed away but God rest her soul
    She b*tched so much , It drove me nuts
    My dad made her like he was
    During growing up my dad was cranky
    And mom was cranky And I had to swallow it

    I never had a high school sweetheart
    I want love someone so bad But I am afraid
    if they would accept a guy on SSI income
    who has manic depression and diabetes
    I want marry a younger female for
    Love but to have kids
    Women age 35 to age 41 are too old
    to get pregnant , Besides i think they
    are not want settling down with a baby
    Lets hope God answers our prayers
    I feel bad for you , It's terrible
    for parents that suck , Here i am
    wanting to be a dad And parent And
    kids are not getting food in their stomach
    or any clothes that they want or need
    I know the hurt trust me, Lets hope for
    better days to come!!

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