My mother

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I hate to say hate. I don't hate anyone at all. But I do hate one person (three people actually). My mom. I really hate her.

I don't her for the typical, oh I didn't get what I want so I hate you kind of way. Let me exlain my situation.

My mother is an open person. She knowingly lets me drink alcohol and she lets me cuss too. I lied to her about having a B in my class when I really had a C and I have been grounded for over 4 months.

She hasn't let me go out with my friends. I can only see them at school. She won't let me go to basketball games. She won't let me do anything. She said that she has to be the "parent" now.

I don't understand how she can let me drink and cuss but I can't lie about a grade. I understand but I lied about a f**king grade that went up to a B for real by the end of the quarter.

Yet I'm still grounded.

Is it normal for my mom to spazz out about me lying? Or am I just a liar who desreves to be punished even though it's a new grading period and I have an A, been grounded for 4 months, and I can do anything else bad.

Oh, p.s I hate my mom.

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  • DenverWagner
    12 years ago

    It's normal to hate your mom, but not for your reasons. For real reasons.

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  • actronic
    12 years ago

    lol the only thing my mom's good at is giving blowjobs.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Show her this... Let her read this ..... And get grounded for four more months... No but ask her ur self... She wat happens...., if u get grounded and I new u I would laugh so ( just in case ) hahahahahahahahaha

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  • faisoly
    14 years ago

    What is your favorite Beer ?

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  • BADMAN!
    14 years ago

    She gave you a little bit of idependence, letting you drink and say what you like. She trusted you to act responsibly. You then lied about your grades (Well, a grade) Thats not she expected of you. Of course she's mad at you. You can't expect her to not mind about a lie.

    You can't drink, cuss AND lie. Thats what kids do. You CAN drink, cuss and tell the truth thats what most adults do.

    I think thats what your mom is angry about. And it's perfectly normal.

    BADMAN!

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  • prettyredbird
    14 years ago

    Yes, sometimes hating your mom when you are a teenager is normal - although I don't think that you will hate her forever. Cut your mom some slack. It is a little nuts that she lets you drink and cuss though.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Yeah I think she is over compensating - being a bit too lax, and then seeing that your grades were suffering.

    You've pulled them up to an excellent level & 4 mos. is too long to be "grounded." That's just being punitive for no reason.

    The important thing is good grades & reasonable behaviour - not how "tough" she can be. Being tough isn't necessarily good parenting - getting results is.

    If she won't sit and reason & negotiate a new deal/agreement with you, talk to school guidance and ask them to mediate.

    Otherwise, all this will do is create resentment IMO.

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  • mdht7
    14 years ago

    she may have realized that because you are swearing and drinking, she might need to dicipline more. if you show some repect, eventually, she will cool off the punishments.

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  • picturecake
    14 years ago

    Your grade has gone from a C to an A...Shows she knows what shes doing...
    Try talking to her in a relaxed way, you sound really immature here, show her your old enough to be trusted.

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  • YALALA
    15 years ago

    i have the same situation but i get mad when she just talks to me like "can you bring me a soda".

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  • combatgal856
    15 years ago

    My mums way more unfair to me than your mum, I have no rights or nothing in my house, what she says goes and my opinions are like bits of dust on the furniture.

    I think talking might help, that way you can both understand eachother. I'm still trying to talk to my mum and it is much easier said than done. Good luck and I hope your mum understands you. Unlike mine

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  • [Old Memory]
    16 years ago

    you mom sounds like a really good parent, she did that because grades are what are important in life, not "not cussing" or "not drinking", listen to her

    my mom was the exact opposite, she put me in special ed, where i had a shitty education, but she made sure that I never cussed or drank, or watched pg-13 movies, or played video games rated mature,

    and look at how i turned out, like shit

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  • Lockets
    16 years ago

    This is teenage angst and you will grow up enough one day to love and value your mother. You only get one mom/mum in life and you should show her more respect.

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    • [Old Memory]
      16 years ago

      and if your mom is just trying to help you you shouldn't lie to her

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      • snootyfox
        15 years ago

        wait ten years and then have a kid and you will know exactly why your mother has done what she has done.

        Bottom line... it isnt easy being a parent and just becuase we are older doesnt always mean we make the right choices all the time... but it does mean we have to fix our mistakes with our kids when we realize we have fucked up.

        You dont hate your mom, your just angery. Be honest with her and gain her trust... you DID lie...and it has nothing to do with your drinking or cursing so get over it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    16 years ago

    You love her really because you posted it twice lmbo

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