My moms mad i wont birth her grand children?

I not had very much luck with finding a suitable partner either gender. I tried but I just dont like anyone, or no one ever stays even if the relationship seems to be going great. No one ever gives warning they are leaving in a relationship either they just kind of decide to leave one day or else find someone they think is hotter.

Whats odd is I am what most people would find very attractive. So I dont see why its so impossible holding a partner. People want to hook up with me since they think I am adorable, sweet and charming. So why do they not want to stay? Anyways I dont see having a partner in the near future and at age 21 am still single and most of my younger friends all married or with Child.

So I decided and I made this decision long ago. I am going to have children regardless. I am going to adopt a child, after getting a good enough job to support them. They no longer can deny custody to single parents or gay parents since they fought for that right and now they are far more lenient about those irrelevant issues. My mother is unhappy since she said she wont have any children that are from her bloodline. I dont understand why it matters? Isnt bringing more children into this world just to say "Its my blood" a little selfish when there is so many children in Foster/Adoption system?

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  • RoseIsabella

    You're only 21, I wouldn't worry until like 40.

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    • I told my mother I would probably find a suitable partner in my 30 and 40. I will already be older once I find someone though. Since people in there 20 and under dont know what the fuck they want and see everything as suspendible.

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  • thegypsysailor

    Tell mom it's your life. She had hers with her kid(s) and you'll do what's right for you.

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  • jethro

    Why not just get artificially insemenated.

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  • MR.mr

    It is selfish to want more kids from your bloodline when so many already need homes, but that doesn't change the fact it's a biological desire to pass on one's own genes, and I understand it very well someday I intend to have a large family of my own.

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    • So why dont I care?

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  • charli.m

    Don't you have siblings?

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    • Yes I do. However my sibling doesn't seem to be able to get a date ever. I not sure why its so impossible for him. He has come home a few times upset since girls at school rejected him. We couldn't get him out of his room for a week.

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