My mom wants me to take birth control

well I just turned 14 may 1st and a few days before my birthday I met up with this guy we lives about 30 minutes away from me I really really liked him well when we meet up he gave me a hickey, we didn't have sex , just gave me a hickey well my mom put me on birth control cause my sister got pregnant at 15 and she my mom got pregnant at 13 well im totally not like that and i dont support the decision of being on it. Please help I need advice .

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  • Takuto

    Well firstly I can see why she would. She doesn't want you to have the same life she and your sister did. Your mother's just trying to protect you.
    Also, I don't see why you're against birth control.

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    • zzm4

      I'm not really against it just don't feel like I need it.

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      • Nickvey

        im not against car insurance , i just feel im gambling that i will have an accident when im a good driver and know i won't.

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      • Takuto

        Better safe than sorry

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  • leah-beth1997

    If you dont want to be put on birth control use the morning after pill. You have to take it as soon as possible before 72 hours after intercourse.

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  • Ericharris

    She's just trying to protect you, my mother is trying to get me on birth control too.

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  • Nickvey

    you are 14 . look at the 18 year olds how fat they have gotten . do you think those fatties at high school are getting married or dating? No they are not. So young lady, if you want a sex life at all you better get all the sex you can where ever you can because when that ass gets so wide you can't find a chair the only men that will want you will be Black. If you stay thin and thats rare you will head off to college leaving behind any reputation. your mother is looking after your best interests. do you want to murder your unborn child in an abortion . yea that reputation will sit good with a man some day. you may not see the reason for it now but i have seen 18 year old women ruin everything just because of one date that went south with a guy they had no intention of being with.

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  • TheShyGirlFromWork

    Do it... take the pill. Your periods will be more regular, and less intense; your skin completion will be better; and IF you choose to have unprotected sex, and the guy cums in you, then you can enjoy the mutual Great feeling of him exploding his load inside you, but not get pregnant. Yes... do it.

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    • Nickvey

      most women do like the cum feel and want the guy to hold his penis inside untill its so limp it slides out and if they guy likes her he will hold in in anyway.

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    • zzm4

      I went to the doctor yesterday and he put me on some pills in a green package. I don't wanna take them then when my dad finds out I'll get into even more trouble.

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