My mom lives in different country so that she can earn better?
She left me alone in the country when I was 18. I lived alone in a hostel next to my college. She gave me enough cash every month. She visited me once after 1 n half years for about one month. She promised me she would return in few months.
I counted each day for her. I was alone and depressed. My friends would go home in vacations while I would just cry alone. She would be too busy to answer my phone.
She has come back now, I am 20 now. She had told me (promised me) that she would now be with me and would never go back. But one week after staying here she has started crying that she can't find a job and that she has to pay off loans. She says she will GO BACK!!
This is killing me. I am feeling very sick and disgusted. She sees nothing wrong with leaving me alone for 2 more years. I am her only daughter and she is the only adult to take care of me.
I begged and I cried but she cried even more saying that she doesn't want to live a poor life here and that she prefers to live there.
She says I will anyway live in my hostel (as my college is in a different city) so its better she stays in that country where the lifestyle is better and where there's plenty of money.
If she stays here, she will have to work hard and stay in a very poor condition. But its not impossible. Its upto her.
But if she was here, I would meet here twice a month. And after my college got over in a year or so I would live with her.
But she calls our home hell and she is eager to go back to that country.
Is she right? Is this normal?