My mom always calls me a prostitute?

I just don't get why my mom constantly calls me a "whore" ,"prostitute", and other names, she also always puts me down. I don't do anything to make my self look like one(even the way i dress is very conservative), or act like one(far from it). She always thinks I'm up to something or that I only care about boys at school (which I don't). I'm honestly not like most kids my age, and I don't do anything that most kids do. She just said that I look like a prostitute for wearing nail polish??!! (i mean seriously?)
She's always put me down in everything making me feel worthless. When i was younger i was on the "chubbier" side and I remember her calling me fat, as a result I've starved myself many times and she would encourage to starve myself even more.

When ever I try talking to her or I tell her I don't want to argue, she doesn't listen, she's never been able to listen to me. Is it normal?

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Comments ( 28 )
  • blackfish

    Fucking report her to social services

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  • moomus

    She sounds fucked in the head, why treat your kid like that?

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  • Jeci_Cassidy

    She's probably got some sort of jealousy issue. Maybe because your everything she wanted to be but couldn't. Maybe your prettier then her. Maybe she feels inferior to you. It could be several different things.

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  • dontgiveup:)

    My mom does this too.... We once argued When I was younger and she told me she was going to leave me, I cried and begged her not too, and she said "you're a f****** prostitute, I hope you get raped and die! I don't need you in my life, I'm better off without you anyways! I knew it was a bad decision to keep you, I should have abandoned you when I had a chance! I dont even love you!" that will NEVER be forgotten, the words my
    Mother told me.... She said so much more, but that was the worse, and it's true "words hurt more than sticks and stones." I will NEVER be like her with my future children.... Just keep strong and don't let her put you down, you're worth so much! If she can't see it, god does and he loves you!:)

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  • ilove.nsn

    Your mom is a BITCH! I'd suggest go living with your aunt or something.. Have you told anyone else this??

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  • beastiessister

    WOW your Mom has problems! Nail polish! Seriously?! If she was right (Witch shall happen when hell frezes over aka NEVER) The whole bloody teenage generation would be whores and prostitutes witch they are NOT! I suggest she gets therapy!

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  • SpikeDurden

    No it's not normal. Be yourself. Stay away from your mom.

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  • Slipshod204

    it sounds like your mother had a messed up childhood.

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  • sweetz90

    My mom is constantly telling me that I'm fat and encourages me not to eat...she has called me a prostitute before ( not constantly tho) when I started dating...it's poisonous and you should try to get away from it, or ignore it ( that's what I do) and she's calmed down now..I litterly just keep walking as she continues to talk...try this..it'll help her see her negative words aren't working to bring u down...

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  • MarieWantsIt

    You sound normal. Your mom has the problems.

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  • alv1592

    wow, she sounds like a bitch. don't listen to her. wearing nail polish isn't whore-ish at all. wear it all you want.

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  • shogun

    She is probably judging you by her own standards. You control your destiny not her. Live your life your way, good luck x

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  • ComeFlyWithMe

    Sounds like your mom has some problems. I don't think this is normal.

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  • januarycurse

    she seems jealous of you.

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  • aurora73

    Your mum is a bitch with major major major issues!!! My mum was exactly the same ..... she will eventually destroy your confidence!Do you have a really trusted family member like an aunt or grandma you can talk to about this? You need to let people know this is happening ..... don't bottle it up! I suggest the minute you are old enough, leave home! In the meantime find loads of friends to hang out with instead of being at home a lot. Study round friends places etc! But dont go out partying all the time .... I did that .... got rubbish grades and ended up living at home a lot longer than I wanted!!

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  • NO ITS NOT NORMAL. People who put you down and call you names for no reason like your mom, are people your better off without. Move out when you can and dont let your future kids be around her. Act nothing like her when your a mom.

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  • chewy

    your mom is the prostitute not you

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  • gurtlush

    Yeah its abuse. In situations like this the abuser has often been abused sexually themselves though

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    • aurora73

      That's true! But not your problem OP!

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  • den411

    No, though i am skeptical if this is the whole story. That said, no parent or grandparent should call you those words or treat you like that - even if you dish it back. Unfortunately you cant really stay away from your mom, I would tell a counselor at school. Where is your dad in this equation?

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  • CountryRoads

    Terrible. Just don't let it become a self-fulfilling prophecy- keep being a good, decent girl with good morals. Until you are old enough to separate from her, just keep reminding yourself it's not true. And remember this when you have a daughter. Just keep respecting yourself; just because she doesn't respect you doesn't mean you shouldn't.

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  • freddyboi

    if that was my mum id fuucking screw and give her a back hand and make her go out and work the streets as a prozzie

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  • Anila

    God i can't believe that there are such kind of moms like these in this world i mean i hv the same story...i have to suffer from all this alone and have no one to talk about all this...because of bad grades and having a bf i had to listen a lot ....i have been called a slut,whore,prostitute and many more by my own mom and she even said that i should hv been raped only then i'd realise that there's nothing called love(i mean seriously??)how could you even say this to your own daughter to whom you have given birth...and then she comes to me and appologize for what she said and i just look at her and wonder that what tf is wrong with her but never utter a word in front of her...i just listen to all that bullshitt and bottle up stuff in my mind and keep it to myself cause i hv no one share...idk what to do....just stay strong everyone who all have to suffer from all this...please

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  • webding

    Hey, I'm 51 and a very decent lady. I live with my mum because she is old, and guess what -- she called me a slut the other day, and told me i've always been a slut!! It's disgusting and wrong. My mother has problems -- like yours. If I didn't have my sister to talk to, I'd be quite sad. My sister got the same treatment when she was younger. Heed the advice of CONFIDING IN A SCHOOL COUNSELOR OR TRUSTED RELATIVE. There are mothers like this in the world, and IT'S NOT THEIR KIDS FAULT. Good luck and God be with you xxx

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  • Avant-Garde

    Your mom is a bitch! She needs to get therapy.

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  • NeonLighterz

    Kill her.

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  • kellstar79

    Not normal, please get help ASAP! It's your mother who has issues, not you! You sound really sweet and I'm sorry she treats you this way. You deserve so much more! Nail polish doesn't make anyone a whore or prostitute, it's decoration just like wearing a ring or necklace. Please be ok

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  • salvetori

    So true. ;)

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