My marriage is dying

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hello people,maybe some one can give me an advise....
im married for almos five years now but my wife and i are very distant we dont figth , and we get along ok,but the love we felt for each other is fading away
i dont want to divorce,and i think she does nt want that also,but our love is slipping away .
may be some one out there has pass the same experince and found the way to save their marriage. Is this normal?
thanks

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  • ck38
    13 years ago

    It can be normal. People become complacent and don't put the effort into a marriage after a while (and not for any particular reason). You really need to talk to your partner and get this sorted. Make more time for each other and put in the time to make your marriage work. This sounds similar to the situation I was in, except it is too late for us now. My husband and I still are very fond of each other, never fought, never argued, got on okay........it just got ultra boring and hence one of us started another relationship and now it's over.
    Don't make the same mistake. Start talking.

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  • KaffeInjection
    10 years ago

    Time to get a divorce and move on if you gais' don't have feelings for eachother anymore...

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You need to do something. Think!

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  • DrinaVonCheez
    12 years ago

    I hate divorce :(

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  • kokotwix66
    12 years ago

    Maybe you have to travel to different country with her for a month or whatever you want but just tell her that you still love her ..... I wish if my advice helped you :)

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  • shogun
    13 years ago

    It could be so many things BUT two things alway seem tot make a huge difference one is sex to other money, that's not withstanding worrying about each other and not communicating .so it's difficult to say without more of an insight. I assume you still love her? So if you want her work harder to keep her may be the guy she fel for is not there anymore?

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