My man wanted a cage but keeps changing his mind

My man decided he wanted to experiment with chastity, I wasn't interested but he wouldn't let it drop. In the end I agreed to try it and he ordered a chastity cage for himself. After a lot of messing about with it to get it to fit him comfortably, and experimenting with wearing it for longer and longer lengths of time he finally decides he wants to try it out for real. He had had it for about a month and I figured it was not very interesting, but he seemed to be enjoying experimenting with it and had worn it for 5 days on his final little trial.

He gave me the keys and told me whatever he said to me about letting him out I was to refuse until he had it on for 2 weeks. He said I should take advantage of him and ask for lots of orgasms and make him give me lots of attention. I went along with it for the first few days but got bored. After 10 days he said it wasn't working and asked me to let him out. So I did. I let him out in the morning and went to work, that evening he was really stroppy and complained I had just handed over the keys when he asked and I should have waited the 2 weeks like we agreed.

We argued with me saying the whole thing is ridiculous and him blaming me for being no fun anymore. In the end we agreed to try it again and I promised to try harder to engage in this lifestyle. I decided to do some research and was amazed at some of the stuff on line that people claim to do! I started telling him to do more household chores and showed him how to do them well. For the first time ever he actually started being more help than hinderance when doing jobs in the house. I let him give me quite a few orgasms as this seemed to please him and we made it through the whole 2 weeks. We tried this a couple more times and each time I let him out we had great sex.

He then said he wanted to try for longer but I should decide how long and wasn't to tell him but should make it a reward if he was really good. I was starting to enjoy myself a bit more as I learnt to accept this way of living, but he kept saying I wasn't demanding enough. I had been doing my research so I decided I would be more demanding. I bought him a few pairs of panties and told him he was to start wearing them instead of his male underwear. He was taken back at this and said it wasn't what he had in mind. I said I didn't care he told me to be more demanding so I was. He refused to wear them so I told him he wasn't coming out of his cage until he wore them every day for 2 weeks. He refused, I stopped asking him for orgasms but took advantage of his new housework skills. After a couple of weeks he was restless and told me the chastity thing obviously isn't working and we should stop. I reminded him of the first time and told him it was staying until he wore the underwear for 2 weeks. In the end he did but by the time I let him out it was 6 weeks.

After a few days and some great sex he said he wanted the cage on again but for a shorter time and without the panties. I have got more in to this now so I told him if he wants the cage then I want the panties and I decide when the cage comes off. He said there had to be a time limit so I told him 6 months. He said 1 month so I said I would make it no longer than 4 months but that was the best I would do, in the end he agreed. It has been on 2 months now and I was going to let him out, I recently progressed him to wearing a maids outfit on Saturdays and doing all the cleaning. I have regular orgasms from him and life is good. He asked me the other day when he was getting out I told him soon but asking had just cost him an extra week. Now he has turned all stroppy and said he wants to come out and doesn't want to do this any more.

I am confused, I am happy to let him out and forget the whole lifestyle but we tried that before and he got all stroppy. He either wants me in charge or he doesn't. But he seems to think he should pick and choose all the time so I don't know if I should ignore him complaining, let him out then start again when he is ready or just say I'm done with it all.