My lil brother problem

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I have a 7 years old lil brother, he was a smart n intelligent boy. Our dad passed away 2 months ago, he bcome lazy to think at school, all his scores r sucks , like A to D .. we (my mum n me) starts by ignoring it n let him be coz we think he still shocked .. but we can't let him like that forever .. what should i do? Shout at him will just hurt him more that's why I'm as his sister feels sad, confuse n angry too

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  • reminiscent
    9 years ago | pl

    Im sorry for you loss...however your wording is atrocious.

    I dont think ignoring will help...he is 7 so little...he needs family support. ..hang out with him and help him study his homework.

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    • PandaBitch
      9 years ago

      ah it's okay.. it's okay

      Yea.. we did , i always teach him but still, at school .. it's like he can't remember anything at all

      P.S. if my grammar is wrong, i know ... english is not my language

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      • reminiscent
        9 years ago

        Just try to be a support for him and maybe get him counciling just someone to talk to.

        And best of luck to you and your family

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  • palepunk
    9 years ago

    It's normal for him to be acting this way. He may need to see a councillor, and you may need to as well. The loss of a parent is extraordinarily painful and can effect a child severely.

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    • PandaBitch
      9 years ago

      eh? m..me too ? why?
      yea~... i guess he need it

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Yes for fuck's sake, take some english classes or something. That being said, sorry about your dad :( its tough losing a parent. The best you can do is be there for him, comfort him and let time heal this as not much else can or will ever make it any better.

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    • PandaBitch
      9 years ago

      H-hai! I understand ! ..and sorry
      Thanks

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  • Ellenna
    9 years ago

    Give him time, lots more time, two months is nothing. Counselling would be good, not just for him, but for the rest of you, because your expectations of him are totally unrealistic.

    Please, do something soon because it sounds to me like he's becoming or already is the scapegoat for the grief of the rest of the family.

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    • PandaBitch
      9 years ago

      haiii~ (- 0 -)/

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    Make him eat a Baboon for breakfast.

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    • PandaBitch
      9 years ago

      Bukorotsu !

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