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Is it normal that i never do anything or go anywhere, i only talk to friends online and find dong the opposite of any of thees things is uncomfortable, and obviously ive never had a girlfriend and i barley care if i do at all, and ive never been any different as far as i remember so it doesnt bother me much (male 20)
hey dude, whatever people say, its not good for you to be alone :p and its not good for you to sit inside all day, if you dont get 20minutes of daylight aday, you can get a serious depression. and seriously, we are pack animals, we're ment to be with each other! you only live once pal
Whatever makes you happy, bro. If you enjoy being an introvert and keeping to yourself, you keep doing it. I can tell that since you came on her and asked if it's normal, it seems to bother you somewhat.
Well, from what I can tell, this does bother you just a little. I'm a bit like you (except I'm a female) and for me, it is just more comfortable to stay home and be anti-social. Is it the same thing for you? I try my best to step out of my comfort zone though because most of the time, I end up enjoying myself.
Are you anxious about socializing? I understand not wanting to get close to people because you are afraid of getting hurt; I'm the same way. But sometimes it is good to just take a chance with someone, they could be worth it. It is important to not deprive yourself of all the experiences life has to offer. Getting hurt is a part of life and as unpleasant as it is, with out we wouldn't know what it is like to be liked and loved by our friends!
Good luck and I hope you are feeling happier soon :)
Lol This is normal a lot more people are in this situation like more than you think im a girl and im 19 going to be 20 and I really dont have a group of tight friends and I really dont put myself out there either because I seen how messed up people can be and I think its just safer to be me like I cant get hurt you know so yea I think this is normal !!
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Just to let you know, although I don't personally judge you (I can relate!), people are going to rip on your for this.
I can't really decide if it's "normal" or not, it's unorthodox, sure, but it's determining the normality of it I'm struggling with.
Do you ever get lonely? If not then you've perhaps got some sort of social disorder.
I think, with the greatest of respect. You need to move out of your comfort zone and find something you like doing away from your computer screen. Get a hobby, or go to the pub with your friends once a week or something.
Believe me, online friendships can fuck with your head.