My jealousy problem

im sooo the same way! luckily my bf rather spend all his time with me then any of his chik friends so it makes me more comfortable if he ever does talk to them and i haaate when pretty chiks are on tv but to tell u the truth ppl think other ppl are attractive even if ur with someone but u choose to be with that person and i think girls are hot sumtimes too so how is it right for me to get mad if he looks at a naked chik on tv if i am too? lol so i finally just layed off him and i actually said id get him a porn mag and u kno what? he said he rather have me take naked pics of myself and he use those haha so if u just relax and remember he wants to be with youuu then itll be ok!!

You got to find to root of the problem, wich is your own insecurity. Good looking men and women are everywhere , and genocide is not an option. We got to learn how to live with it. I suffer from the same evil but try to "pretend" you are not a sick ,jealous,insecure person" and ocasionally you are telling your brain to stop acting like that. When i hear that some girl was hitting on my bf as well, it feels like a stabbing,choking feeling. It is not his fault we are sick individuals, so spare him before you lose him. Do a little rationalization on that case. As yourself, if he is a good looking man, likeble, is not impossible people to get attracted to him. But if he is really into spending more time texting girls and hugging them in front of you, maybe you should consider moving on.

I like how a girl can be jealous, and everyone sides with her. The moment a guy gets jealous, he's criticized. Anyway, do you do these things as well? I mean, there is a line where jealousy is expected. Only thing I would disagree with, is if you get jealous that he hugs a girl, but then you turn around a hug a guy. Though hugs are nothing to get jealous over, you get the point. If you are getting that jealous, talk to him about it. Let him know, you can't fix the problem if he doesn't know about it.

I'm with you on everything- I'm disgustingly irrationally jealous all the time. Thank goodness my bf rarely does anything to awaken my jealousy but when he does it's a nightmare. It hurts like hell and genocide looks pretty good, at that moment at least. It's with everything. I can usually calm myself down enough if he's hanging out with guy friends but I still get jealous because I feel like he should be spending time with me instead of them, because if I had the option I would choose to hang out with him over my friends every time. But the girls man. If the majority of girls in the world weren't heartless bitches then we'd all be okay. But of course, that's never the case. It's not necessarily the boyfriend you can't trust- it's the girls. The flirty, skanky girls who'll attach themselves to any guy they see, regardless if he's in a relationship. And just the thought of my bf looking at another girl pisses me off, let alone talking to one, let alone having one hit on him. Just the image of my boyfriend interacting with another girl makes me want to curl up and die. I'll admit, I'm probably seeming like an insane psychopathic jealous beeyotch but I can't help it. I love him too much to simply not care if he talks to other girls. I feel like I can't change my mindset but as long as you don't let your bf know the depth of your jealousy then you guys should be okay. Let me know if you find a pill that cures jealousy! ;)

If he didn't want to be with you, he wouldn't be.

I've never been cheated on before, but I'm a really jealous woman to begin with.. But, look at it this way, if you let it control your life. He'll leave you even if he loves you. Its either you learn to deal with it, or idk.. don't date? Sorry, didn't mean to be harsh.

i got cheated on before and its hard to trust now because i will always get jealous

Maybe you'll grow out of it. Or maybe something in the beginning of the relatinship sparked all of this jealousy. I've gone through what you're going throuh though. I trust my boyfriend 100 percent now though

Extreme jealousy is extremely detrimental to a relationship. It's a sign of your insecurity. Try to get a handle on it. I was not jealous but my husband gave me reason to be. I should have left him b/c it destroyed us. If he is not doing anything to cause your feelings, then get help.

Trust him until he breaks the trust. He can't just get all stimulation from talking and being with you 24/7. He needs to from family friends guys and other girls. As long as he doesn't cheat. Try getting a hobby then you won't be so focused on what he does all the time

Grow up

Keep it up. He will be gone.

The green monster - a real relationship destroyer. Get yourself together with learning to trust yourself.

I was like that with my ex boyfriend, it perfectly normal. I just sucked it up though, and was fine.

I think A LOT of people are like that. I was like that with my ex gf. The only advice I can give you, is to not show how jealous you are when things like this happen. It might make him mad and lead to the end of your relationship. So just hold it in!

/= i feel the same way.

jealousy is a trait that is only found in people who have done or are willing to do what they are getting jealous over. Your the problem.

ok its normal
but dont make it too obvious
its eventually gonna suffocate him and hes gonna leave you
stop it!

haha i did it like 5 seconds ago

but i subconsciously do it and i imagine im with someone

Make some guy friends so when your boyfriend is off talking to some girl, you can be off talking to some guys. It's not to make him jealous back, but at least they'll be paying attention to you...

i think it's perfectly normal to be a little jealous when a girl gets near your boyfriend, it happens to me as well. but you need to control your emotions or else you'll end up losing him. a lot of times i get jealous for very small things and i just keep them to myself. you're the one who's dating him, not them.