My hymen is too tight

Hi guys, please give me advice! When I first started experimenting with penetration, I could not stick anything in. Even if the tip of my finger went inside my vagina, it was very uncomfortable. One day I decided to try it more, so I tried a few different angles and I finally could feel the passage and get my whole finger in without it hurting. I know that my hymen is broken but it feels super tight. It feels like whenever I try to insert something it goes to the hymen and it has to stretch the hymen before going through further. I feel like my hymen is way too tight and small and it’s blocking everything from going in. Now I can use tampons but it takes me at least a minute to get it in because I have to do it slowly. It also hurts if it’s not at the right angle and it touches my hymen. I have tried using a dildo and I have gotten it in a few times but it hurts so much and I think it is because my hymen is not big enough. Is it normal? Please give me advice on how I can stretch it more because it hurts so much when I try to get anything bigger than a finger in.