My husband worries to much

My Husband of two years has a bad habit of asking me on a regular basis if im okay, is there something wrong? Do you love me?...I on the other hand of love the attention but sometimes too much is too much...It leads me to believe if he has done something wrong. What do you think ..... He is the best thing that has ever happened to me compared to my past relationship....Although Its a little embarrassing to admit that when we first got together my husband was going through an annulment as well as the fall of his buisness which led him to work an awful job selling passes to mainly drunken slobs that wanted to party at top of the line night clubs to make ends meet in hopes that the recession will pass and he can start making a descent living again..You can see it in his eyes he was miserable, He pretty much lost everything he worked so hard for...Unfortunatley it broke him down in result broke his spirit and broke his heart. it was just getting harder and harder. He also felt like he was letting me down also....But the way i See it he did what he could. he then began drinking and would get violent with anyone and everyone including me....However he realized in a short time that he was hurting the one he loved and we were expecting as well and he completly went cold turkey and quit he moved us to a different state and has been completely sobber and never raises his voice at me. He is patient, fun loving kind and very considerate....Kisses me good night tells he loves me everday...He provides for our family and he puts us before him. He even goes as far as to apologize to me every so often for the awful person he once was even after I have forgotten that he was once an alcoholic He is a totally differnt person sobber and drunk its been almost two years....

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  • misslonglegs

    Violence is never normal behaviour in a relationship but it can be overcome but would the partner ever feel the same again and trust him enough to accept him back and never do it again

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  • chaosdragoon1

    It good to see that someone realized what he had before he lost it.

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  • jeterfipps1216

    its okay I Meant empathy not sympathy...lol....My fingers sometimes have a mind of there own....

    Since we moved things just fit in....I know he feels guilty but its water under the bridge now...he knows if he ever gets that way again then my bags will be packing....i have left a violent and all the worse relationship before and started over with no remorse...

    again thank you for all the comments it makes me see things a little differently now that more then one person says the same....just needed a 2nd opinion....I seldom get aggrivated anymore when he ask me except when the baby has kept me up all night lol

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  • jeterfipps1216

    Thank you for the comment I almost expected someone to state once an alcoholic always an alcoholic....

    There is no need to feel sorry, although the sympathy is greatly appreciated thank you....Since that awful experience that nearly ripped our marriage into shreds taught us a good lesson and helped us both become better people as individuals....We are doing much better now we all the way around.

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    • oDaZzYi

      Glad to hear your doing better now :D!

      At the start of my first comment I meant to say he, not it, LOL.

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  • oDaZzYi

    It might ask if your alright so often becase of the regret for the behaviour he had when he was an acoholic. I feel sorry for you both, sounds like you went through real hard times :\.

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  • randomjelly

    Reads? Seriously?

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  • Who_Fan4Life

    "My husband reads TOO much''

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  • i hope you 2 are very happy together he sounds nice and he has done a great job to kick the booze. good luck

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  • 8Serene8

    He probably really regrets the violent behavior he has towards you in the past.

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