My husband has never ejaculated with me!

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Have been married 15 years. In the entire time, my husband has never achieved an orgasm with me. He can "go" for 2 hours straight--but has never, ever ejaculated. Believe me, I've TRIED--oral, weird stuff, you name it. However, he CAN ejaculate when he masturbates (and in a normal timeframe--so he say's-I've personally never seen him do it). What can I do? I sometimes dream about leaving him to find a more normal man. He's a great guy in all other respects. He won't go to counseling.

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  • Sammy3
    15 years ago

    Its hard for me to achieve an orgasm vaginaly. Sometimes I have to play with the clit in order to cum while my mans inside me. Maybe you should try doing it doggy style and massaging his balls while hes giving it to you. If that dont make him cum, tell him to stop thinking about dead puppies while f**king you. Enjoy <3

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    How odd but it could be because of many things.

    1. He has a fetish for holding in his seamen.

    2. He think that it might really turn the heat on in your fireplace if he holds it in.

    3. If a man masturbates a lot, sometimes this can cause the sperm count to be very low, too low to ejaculate. Tell him this and have him not masturbate for about a day and then have sex with him. The longer he waits the more it should build up. See if there's a change. If not, then it could be something else, like something psychological, etc.

    Good luck!

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  • Fabiola
    13 years ago

    Make sure you are there when he masturbates! and get creative. see what he does to ejaculate.

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  • regane
    13 years ago

    Don't worry it could be worse my wife and I hardly speak after sex, ok in my defense I often cant find a phone close by

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  • Jim_Pfoss
    15 years ago

    He needs to stop masturbating!

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