My husband flirts with women in bars when i go to the bathroom

When we go out to a bar, if I go to the bathroom, my husband finds a woman he likes, and gets very friendly and flirtatious with her. It hurts me. I feel disrespected. I feel its fine to talk to women when we are talking with her together, but not when he is solo.

Last night when I came back from the bathroom, my husband was gushing and giggling with a woman he had been smiling at all night. Her boyfriend had been in the bathroom too, and he was standing there glaring at my husband wanting to smack him.

My husband claims I am overreacting, and says "whats wrong with being friendly? I don't want to go home with the woman."

How do I handle this?

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Comments ( 13 )
  • mrbrownfinger5

    Just grab a random guy and suck him off when you go to the toilets.

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  • jsnpq

    Its normal to feel jealous. He is being disrespectful to you. Beyond that he isn't doing anything wrong, sounds like he is a flirtatious guy. If he is cheating on you, and I'm gonna just go ahead and tell you this plainly- he sounds exactly like the type who would cheat and has all the signs of a womanizer, then of course thats wrong.

    Divorce him if he doesn't stop or give him permission to do it and then go find someone more attractive than him. Make sure your husband is painfully aware of his inadequacies in comparison to your new lover, which is cruel and not the right thing to do, but you should do it anyway. Either way sounds like you're about to have to make some big decisions, either that or put up with it for the rest of his life. A guy like that ends up chasing tail in an old folks home eventually.

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    • fluffy1uv

      It's not the right thing to do but you should do it anyway?! Wow

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      • jsnpq

        Its okay, honesty isn't for every one, you'll get over it soon enough.

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  • Ellenna

    Pity the other woman's bloke didn't smack yours. If I were you I'd either refuse to go out with him and go out with your friends and/or see how he likes it if you flirt with someone else.

    He's immature and disrespectful: is this what you really want in a relationship?

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  • RoseIsabella

    He has a rather small peen, doesn't he? He sounds like a little bitch.

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  • Addydas

    Leave him there and good luck to them.

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  • Carlton03

    He is being totally disrespectful and it's fuckin disgusting, keep it short and sweet and tell him cut the flirting fuckin crap or this marriage is over, if he keeps going end it!! Not going to bars anymore is not an answer he's obviously a dirty pig and those kind would cheat the 1st chance they get, make him put a stop to it, if the marriage happens to end just think he didn't wanna stop flirting and would have cheated on you one day most likely

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  • KimmiKitsch

    If he was single, that would be no problem. But he's not, and he certainly shouldn't behave like he is as soon as you're out of the room. He's obviously being dismissive of the fact that he's committed himself to a relationship and doesn't respect your feelings, plus it's also embarrassing for you as he most likely makes an idiot of himself when he's at his stupid games. This is not a man, this is a boy and you should spare yourself from any further hurt and embarrassment by dumping him.

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  • riffraffy

    You may be a bit hurt or disrespected but you're sure as hell not bored, and you're more attracted to him now then you were. It's attraction and it's not supposed to make sense.

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    • Good comment. Women walk all over men who give them excess attention.

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      • (s)aint

        No we don´t. A woman wants a man who loves her and only her.
        A girl might be up for playing games, I´m not.

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        • Nonsense. It is well known that nice guys finish last.

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