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I'm not sure if it's just that I'm not as kinky him but he will go from between my legs to my mouth or from my rear to my mouth when he ejaculates. I feel like this is dirty and it bothers me that I've become a sex toy to him.
How the fuck is he supposed to know if you dont tell him.We are not psychic love.
Be his sex toy, get into it what harm can it do? Just don't go from the butt to the vagina. Try to do an enema before sex so the butt is nice and clean.
Tell him you don't like it. If he still does not listen you could always throw his penis out the window of a moving car.
It's not normal if it bothers you and you stay silent! You feel like he's using you as a sex toy and he feels like he's doing something you both enjoy. That's not fun. You will continue to get what you put up with and nothing will change if you don't speak up. Unlikely he is kinkier than you...more likely you haven't been a proactive communicator in the sexual stakes so he is running off 'unattended' doing whatever he can to feel good while you think 'oh no not this again!' Sorry if I'm being harsh but damn girl you need to accept some responsibility here, find your kink, unleash on this man and get a game plan that works for you both! :)
Maybe you should talk to him about what you are not comfortable with him in bed sexually, instead of keeping quiet
vagina is cleaner than the mouth, it has been proven, my wife does not mind that i kiss her vagina and then her mouth, does not bothers me that she is kissing me dick and then my mouth. but everyone needs to respect the wishes of partners, and seek for themselves partner that suits them.
If he does it when he's climaxing, it sounds like it's a big thing for him, sexually. Not like you have to consent to it, but I would make your feelings known, ASAP, if you haven't already. Before resentment grows.
You're married, so you have to tell him those particular activities do bother you. Telling us isn't going to fix anything.
Also, you're married, so at times, the wife is the husbands sex toy. You said, "I do", so tag , you're it.
Sure, I suppose he could get a mistress to play sex-toy.
Is not normal that he behaves like this with you. There are such man, even worse, but very, very rarely are man such as he. He is obliged to to respect you and give to you pleasure as you want, so that you could return him enjoyment in your own way. I believe that he is selfish.
I don't have a problem with a guy going from my vagina to my mouth with his penis or his mouth but I'm not a fan of anal sex but still you shouldn't have to do anything you aren't comfortable with. If hes really insistant ask if you can put a finger or something bigger in his bottom and then into his mouth and see what he thinks of that.
Pulling out of your anus and ejaculating into your mouth is unsanitary, unsafe and disrespectful. I'm sure he goes from your anus to your vagina too. This leads to yeast infections etc.
I wonder how he gets you to open your mouth so he can cum in it? From your vagina to your mouth is normal and safe. Its exciting and beautiful to feel my sperm shooting into a lover's mouth. Does he force you to swallow his cum?
Why do you allow him to use you as he pleases?
Maybe your husband thinks you like it, again big issue that was raised in above comments how would he know you don't, nathanscot like how you put it pal. Fact of the matter is we aren't physic and goes from your ass to your mouth? If your taking it up the gas pipe you really cant blame the guy for assuming he can cum in your mouth.
I agree with the above comment... I would at least hope that he goes out of his way to please you, do something he might not want to... but it doesn't sound like it...?