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I want my husband to get away from me but still be closeby to fix things and for the sex so while we shopped for our new mobile home I suggested we also buy a shed for him to live in. To my surprise he was agreeable to the idea. I'm so excited but now I'm curious how much more of my abuse and demands he will take.
is it normal to agree to live in a shed?
No it's not normal. Just because you can control someone doesn't mean you should. If ya'll have kids I can understand him accepting moving into a shed to be close to his family, but you shouldn't take advantage of that. If he's willing to do that it tells me he loves you deeply. Why can't he just move out and come over when you need him? What goes around comes back around. Don't abuse him intentionally or you may get a huge dose of your own medicine in the future.
Just as it's normal for some men to be assholes, but I do agree the OP is a cunt and totally mental.
If I divorce him, he'd be in a lot worse shape so really, I'm doing him a favor. There's obviously a lot more to this story than what has been said here.
I'm angry, yes. I am enjoying pushing the boundaries. Am I a thorough cunt? I don't think so. It's been 15 years together and our lives are very much entangled (children, money, property, savings, etc) and we both depend on each other a lot but parts of our marriage have deteriorated drastically. It's either divorce or the shed. I didn't say that of course, I just suggested he live in a shed very nicely and he accepted without any fight or threats. I was pretty shocked but very happy.
I would do the same thing too, anything to get away from you. Shit I'll live on the street if it meant not spending another second with you.
"I want my husband to get away from me but still be closeby to fix things and for the sex"
I think you need to tell us THAT story before asking about him living in a shed. sounds like you have a horrible relationship.
Why not if he's consenting to it? He must because, wouldn't he have told otherwise if he didn't? Or, is he scared to question your authority?
Hmm, interesting idea...
If I didn't live in a state that I could freeze to death, I would seriously consider it. A shed would be too small, but living in my detached 2 car garage could be sweet.
Other than heat and water, it has pretty much everything I need to keep me from going insane. A kick ass stereo, DVD player, and a 46" TV? A fridge, coffee maker and an old F-100 to work on? Hell yea, what else do I need?! I love hanging out in my garage, I practically live out there anyway...
So how big is the shed you're looking at anyway? Though it is a psychotic idea of yours, isn't HE the one that agreed to it? Does it make it right? No, not at all. Absolutely not. It's probably even illegal, BUT, if you both agree, why not?
BTW, you both seem a little 'off' , even to me....that's bad.