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I don't understand how people get marry and behind that persons back have sex with someone else? For that reason people shouldn't get marry! I work were almost all the bodies I see have died from sexually disease and it's sad! It breaks my heart people don't learn
People shouldn't get married because we are not monogamous by nature. Marriage was made to constrain people. Especially men. Most species are naturally wired to seek different partners during their lifetime. It's the natural way to create diversity.
I believe the institution of marriage was created for the raising of the children, not to "constrain people".
Someone to provide for the family and someone to raise the children before schools were set up to become the institutional "babysitters" they are today.
Perhaps in today's world marriage is not of the same value it was, but many, myself included, feel that it is the break up of the family unit and the two wage earner parents, that has contributed the most to our problems with drugs, gangs and street violence in America.
Wouldn't most of you accept monogamy if it meant a return to a safer way of life?
Of course, it makes absolutely no sense, to me, for anyone to marry before they have had numerous partners, and not just marry someone because they are the first person who'll have sex with them.
We will not talk about this any further, our beliefs will clash, I am Christian, you are obviously not. I am not ridiculing you and your beliefs, I respect them. There are animals who stay with one partner for the rest of their life span. If you have desires and lusts which you fail to control. We all don't have the same "problems" . Marriage is something beautiful. Polygamy takes the beauty out of it!, your statement is an excuse for barbaric human practises.
I think some people are monogamous naturally. Penquins and elephants have life partners, as well as many other species.
That's not true, On the Discovery Channel, I saw the male elephant mate with different females, within his harem. And that's what the narrator said.
Penguins are not 100% monogamous. There is actually penguin prostitution. The black vulture is monogamous and if a mate is caught cheating it will be attacked.
Marriage was designed for security reasons.
Commitment is also biologically feasible. We want a partner all to ourselves because we want to produce offspring with them. We want to foster our genes, because we instinctively have an urge to protect our own genes. Hence, you will see people sacrificing their lives more often to their relatives (and rarely to complete strangers), since they share many genes with you.
If your wife had an affair in the past, she would probably become pregnant and you would need to take care of the child.
You would be taking care of someone who doesn't have your genes. Hence, you get no Darwinian fitness benefit, but you are given the burden of raising a child.
Personally, I'm not getting married because I'm too freaking flighty. And, marriage is expensive.
Just for the record some of us ARE monogamous by nature, me included. I am not and animal nor do I possess a bunch of primal instincts that belong in primitive tribes. I am an intelligent adult and I value a one on one relationship above all else.
No kids and no marriage my money is mine and what little I have of it is staying mine. Resource draining bastards.
I read this post and thought ok? I'm so happy I have the life I have. We are deeply in love and we are swingers our sex life in our room and with others is awesome. we have explored so many different things. we are kinky and fun but safe. so are u saying that we shouldnt b married bc we have interests in other sexual partners or is it ok bc we both consent to this behavior? either way i wouldnt change a thing
Some of the people are raped into having babies and diseases like aids and herpes. It's not their fault but usually alcohol is involved and its unfair to turn them away. But they still shouldnt have been asking for it.
I would like to volunteer to have sex with everyone on this post. You're welcome.
It sounds like your job is depressing. What is your profession? Nurse? Doctor? Person who works at a clinic/organisation for prostitutes/people who aren't prostitutes but are whores/destitute folks/people who are addicted to hardcore drugs?
Marriage really isn't that black and white. There are plenty of "good" married couples who don't cheat on their spouses and what not. Don't let people's actions ruin something for you.
I am married to the King, and we have a wonderful life, it ok for him to have his concubines. As long as I am number one. And alas, I too have my young muscular caramel lovers to fufill my desires. This enriches our marriage. Sexual Disease is from unclean filth, not having Multiple lovers. You should get married, just use protection if your gonna screw around.
In what manner?, For this has been the way of Royalty for eons. Does thou not agree with years of tradition, dating back to Ancient Rome. Or is it of something else you speak. I'm not sure I understand what your referring too. Please Clarify. My Knight