My hair is the worst

My hair is beautiful when it goes right which is hardly ever. It doesn't have a style I have some short parts at the front which never seem to grow much but can act as a fringe they're nice when they want to be. I have a side parting and throw my hair one way so it creates volume. I feel like I should have a style but I can see myself hating it then will It grow back to what it is now? Cause idk what this style is. I've never have a boyfriend and maybe having a new style might attract one ? Someone said that;( I feel like I'll never find anyone and maybe it's down to my hair ? Dry brittle and bitty. And by bitty I mean lots of different lengths. Not layers, just where my hair has broken. But I need to wash it everyday with work.

Sorry, mixed messages, weird post. I'm just worried :(

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  • i_was_fricasseed

    You could always go bald and Wear a wig.

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  • Adopt-a-thot

    Keratin treatments. And argan oil.

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  • _Mehhhh_

    I want to say just be grateful you have a full head of hair, lots of people don't :P

    But seriously, washing it less should help it be a bit healthier. Eventually, your scalp will adapt to it being washed less and the hair won't be so oily. I don't know if you can wear a hat to work, but if you find it gets oily very quickly after washing a hat can cover it until your scalp adapts.

    It also sounds like you need a BIG cut to get rid of the damaged wispiness. Afterwards, get it trimmed regularly (every 2-3 months) to keep the ends healthy. If you tell the hairdresser you're growing it and just want a small trim, they'll cut off so little you won't notice.

    Avoid very strong shampoos and get a good conditioner. Wash your hair in cold water, it's better for it.

    And it should go without saying, but at least for now, avoid all dyes, heat products and over-styling your hair.

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  • Cocomilktitties

    I don't think that hair style alone will determine if you get a boyfriend or not.

    Sometimes it takes a little bit of tinkering to find a good hairstyle. I think the best thing to do is to goto a salon with good reviews and ask the people who work there for their professional opinion.

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