My guy friend self harmed and cut himself bad because

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My guy friend self harmed and cut himself bad because I attempted suicide and I feel so hurt and confused.

I feel like it's all my fault he did that but I'm also confused why he did it and it's eating me up.

I'm okay now but at the time, I was feeling so depressed and hopeless. He unintentionally did something that upset me but I was already feeling so sad so it wasn't him that caused it and he even apologized but in the end, I slightly attempted something and I found out he cut himself bad.

I was beyond and still am beyond upset with myself but I'm wondering what the hell happened and if I'm evil? I feel like I'm not worthy of being in his life if I made him hurt himself. Do I walk away? I love him.

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago | pl

    You're not responsible for other people, and what they do. Regardless, neither you, nor your friend should be self harming, and instead ya'll should both be in therapy.

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  • zarabell
    4 years ago

    maybe you make him think he was the trigger to your suicide attempt?.. and to make up for the pain he caused you, he tried to hurt himself. but you both survived, correct..? that's good if that's the case, because it means you both have things to live for and can make up for the pain you have caused eachother through love now. healing over pain

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  • Doesnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    What rose said.

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