My girlfriends mom hates my look

Its just a bad reputation these kind of things have like I got a tattoo on my forearm when I was 15 and most people talked to me like I was some dangerous person and my teachers even treated me like I was stupider then everyone else its just ridiculous.

I cant belive the number of sheep/people out there in this world.
You would call the cops?
And get charged with a false report.
And the guy saying that he should "man up" and take out the piercings, yr a dipshit
I guess people like being cookie cutter and all be the same... Bahah sheep
The same people with these fasist thought's probably think breast implants are ok

i was a long haired guy in a hockey town when i was a teenager. i got called fag eVRYDAY on the bus to school. i got beat by hockey players. my teachers sometimes treated me like i was a rebel, even though i was straight edged and polite. i only ever had ONE gf's parents like me, and that was because they were "freaks" like me. DON'T LET THE WORLD MAKE YOU BITTER AND DON'T LET THEM MAKE YOU CHANGE. we are all beautiful inside, don't let the ugliness of hatred ruin the wonderful person im' sure you are.

Buddy you are a freak and that look is horrible if i had a daughter i wouldnt even talk to you.You are crying out for attention with that look.My advice be a man and grow up take that crap out of your ears and grow the hell up.You like the attention its quite clear but wouldnt it be better if it was positive like wow what a organized handsome young man instead of some marilyn manson weirdo goth freak vmon man u can tell that u look like crap with that garbage in your face...

Hey I'm a lady that has stretched ears, multiple ear piercings, and a couple tattoos myself. Not to mention bright blue hair. Take it from me, people are going to judge you no matter what, but it's satisfying to know that their ignorance is the real plague, and not your appearance. I've gotten stuff like "how are you going to find a job?" When I've been working since I was 15. You're fine dude :)

Some people just need to get their heads out of their asses.

The fact that people are telling you to stop looking the way you do is amusing. It's almost a parallel to racism. Should I stop looking like a white girl because someone doesn't like it? Should a black person stop being black? I dunno, it's just ridiculous to me that people think we should all be the same. Should we all "clean up" and get a hair cut and take out our piercings? Do we need to have another 70s hippie movement here? Geezus.
Why do people even have time to worry about what others look like haha. I have way more important things and myself to worry about.

Her mum is being an idiot, it's who you are inside that matters not what you look like. I know my mum would much rather me be dating a nice person with loads of piercings and tattoos than a wanker who looks like any other regular person.

@mistergee
Im not done with you buddy
I wish people like you would speak up in public more often... Dont be a coward... Next time you see one of these "freaks" i want you to go over to them and tell them how to be, go give them the queer eye speech and see where it gets you.
I would seriusly hold you down and spit in yr ear.

Wow, there are some nasty people commenting on this. People are still so shallow. I guess it's on the daughter to demand her mother respect you. How old is your girl? How could her mother keep her from seeing you?

Some people are stuck in their ways, It might be hard for her to adjust, but if she's any mother worth having, she'll accept you regardless what you've added to your body.

it's her loss if she decides she wants to be like that.

Why do you expect her parents to like you? You can't be serious, doing what you do to yourself and expecting other people's admiration. If "body modification" is what you want and like then fine. Just don't be so ridiculous in demanding "acceptance."

I know exactly where your coming from man, i have 12 piercings and 8 Tatts and my b/f's mum hates me lol

Who cares about what your girlfriends mom?
It's her doughter you're dating and love, not the mom*
:D

And about your image...
I've got 31mm! Stay strong. It's something you love and IT IS going to affect you upcoming relationships, but it's a decision you've made.

Go to BME. there you can find much more suport, more than the one you're getting here :D

peace man

Well I am 45 and I like some of it but I think there is a point when you can do too much. And you have to remember this kind of thing wasn't around 50 years ago and most people that are my age and older dont have anything unless a guy went into the service and got a tattoo. I would do what you want to do it is your life and your body but if you love your girlfriend then take that into consideration but should you really have to change who you are so someone will love you or like you?

You can express youself any way you want, but you can't avoid the way people react to it.

If you don't like the reaction, then express yourself some other way.

Is this really difficult for you?

all parents are like that, i think that mom cant handle any boy not just you

Ask yourslef this, What do you love more body modification, or your girlfriend?

Dr. Learnderd A.I. Rachel

tbh, I've never really got body mods, though I do agree that people should respect your decision to have them. However, if you wanna keep up the style, you're gonna have to accept that a lot of people aren't very open-minded to that sorta thing, especially if they are older, and no matter what you're always gonna find someone who objects. Don't let it stop you if you like it though, just learn to ignore the people who don't : )

You use the word, Freak, is this how you see yourself? If so then how can you blame her for seeing you the same way? Most parents want the very best for their children, I know I do. They look at you and wonder what kind of future you have. What kind of a job will you be able to get. How well will you be able to support their daughter. These are all good reasons to look at you and shake there heads. I assume you are young, as very few older people are running around with huge holes in their ear lobes. I further assume that your girlfriend and her family are more main stream. You mention that you like the history and meaning of your self mutilations. However it's not your history! Nore is it her parents history so why should they understand it?

You're a freak If I saw you I would call the police.

I don't blame her, if I saw you walking up to my house I'd call the police.

youra emo who wouldnt hate you? nothing wrong with tattoos or piercings but you have to realise that some people arnt used to it and if your old enough to have these tattoos and piercings how come your girls young enough to be telt by her mom what to do are you a nonse or is this bullshit?