My girlfriends cousin wants to sleep with me, what should i do?

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ok, so me and my girlfriend moved in with her aunt, uncle and cousin. i have been with my girlfriend for 5 years and we love eachother to death but heres the thing, her cousin is a very nice looking, young girl and when we are alone like wathching tv in the afternoon for example she always cuddles up to me, we have become close friends i drive her around, take her out, give her advice help her with her college work etc etc, she keeps asking me what its like to have sex, as shes a virgin, shes even asked me to be her first lover. i have kissed her, once or twice, i just feel like its wrong even though she is gorgeous, i feel like we connect on a more emotional level and can talk to her easier than my girlfiend, i feel guilty because i know i want her, but shes only just turned 15 and i am 21 what should i do?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Aww. Dilemma. I'm not really an expert when it comes to relationship, so don't just blindly follow my word as was it the law, if you know what I'm saying.

    However, first of all you gotta seek deep into your heart and decide who you love the most: your girlfriend versus her cousin.

    If the answer is your girlfriend, stop kissing her cousin. You can still be friends with her; just try to sound really sympathetic and explain to her that if she sees you as a potentional lover, it would never work out, not because of your age, but because you love her cousin, the girl you have spent 5 years of your life with.

    If the answer is her cousin... Actually, it's not. I highly doubt it is. You've just found a new, young, interresting person, who is so young, but seems so ready for everything. She's not, she's just a girl. Remember that she is in the age where a relation ship usually last maximum 3 months. You really wanna give up on the girl you love and have spent 5 years with, for a little girl, who isn't ready? Don't do it, man, seriously

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  • BOYracer88
    14 years ago

    dont do it just wait till shes 16

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