My girlfriend will only do anal if..

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I have been dating my girlfriend for 6 years now. We’re very sexual you name it we’ve done it but I have only put it in her ass a couple of times. She loves ass play loves her ass licked she basically begs for a finger in her ass when we have sex but when it comes to anal she’s so against it. The couple times that we have done it once she hated it and another she loved it. but every time she has let me she’s been really drunk. The drunk nights we do usually get sloppy we’re both wasted I’d love to have a passionate night of sex which leads and ends with anal.

She has one condition she will let me do anal and let me start to stretch her ass so it can become a regular thing but she said I need to know what the pain feels like and let her stick a normal size dildo in my ass. I’m not gay never have been she does lick my ass from time to time and has stuck a finger in there but nothing more. Has anyone crossed this intersection or is this just my crazy girlfriend? Lol

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Boojum

3 years ago

Your girlfriend's precondition seems totally fair to me.

The digestive system of men and women is the same, and that includes the lower GI tract. In fact, she's probably actually giving you a break by stipulating a normal-sized dildo. She's most likely smaller than you, so if you consider the amount your anal sphincter and her's will have to stretch, the challenge for her will be greater than what you have to deal with.

You make a point of saying you're not gay, and I read that as implying you believe that taking something up your ass will make you gay. Any guy who believes that is really stupid. Someone who's gay is sexually attracted to others of their own sex; any sexual act between a man and a woman can never be gay. If you believe that a guy taking a dildo up his ass is gay, do you also believe that her sucking your cock is also gay? After all, gay guys do that for each other a lot more often than they fuck each other in the ass.

If anal is really such a huge turn-on for you for some reason and she's given you a route to that, then you have to decide just how much you want it. If you were to try receiving anal, I suspect you'd probably discover that the reality ain't much like what you've doubtless seen so often in porn (which is probably where you've gotten your fixation). What you see in porn are pros who have learned how to control the natural reflexes of their anal sphincters, any painful and messy moments are edited out and you very rarely see even a hint of how vital lube is for enjoyable anal sex.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Thank you for your reply and yes I completely agree I apologize for making the sticking a dildo in my ass considered so “gay”. I just didn’t know if any other guys out there have experienced this and obviously if I agreed no it wouldn’t make me gay but would it be weird to say ok lube up a dildo and stick it in my ass so I can fuck yours? .. you had a very nice intelligent response and I appreciate that
  
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  - Boojum
    
    3 years ago
    
    No need to apologise, dude. There are lots of guys who worry that they might be secretly gay because they find stimulation of their asshole pleasurable. Personally, I've always found it pretty meh. But there are a lot of nerve endings there, and people are wired up slightly differently - both physically and in psychological terms. There's nothing inherently gay about a guy finding anal stimulation or penetration "interesting" or actually kinda nice, but if he finds himself fantasising that it's Zac Efron back there...
    
    Is part of what you're actually wondering is if there's some sort of weird power-play thing going on in your girlfriend's head? That wouldn't be unheard of, but only she can know if it really is just a practical and 'turnabout is fair play' thing, or if she's intrigued by the thought of flipping your power-dynamic occasionally.
    
    If that is what's going on in her head and if you find the experience of being anally penetrated at least tolerable, there'd be nothing wrong with you letting her do that, and maybe even exaggerating a little how much you enjoy it (or dislike it, if that's what pushes her buttons).
    
    Sexual relationships are always better if the people trust each other and are open to exploring new things. What I, your friends or a bunch of random internet people think about what goes on in the privacy of your bedroom shouldn't count for shit as far as you and her are concerned, but one thing you can be sure of: if you and your girlfriend are thinking about trying something new for you, it damn sure won't be the first time in the history of the human race that a man and a woman have messed around in that way.
    
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    - SickandTwisted18720
      
      3 years ago
      
      Couldn't have said it better myself,me I love having things like that in my ass. Never had a real one yet, but I lived alone for 7 years and I went to a doctor to do an exam on me for my stomach and he put two fingers up my ass instead of one and I didn't say a word I thought to myself don't stop I started out with two fingers by myself and then work my way up to bigger things I'm 43 now and yeah I can take a full 8 inch long lifelike dildo up my ass I thought it out with two fingers by myself then work my way up to bigger things I'm 43 now and yeah I could take a full 8 inch long life like dildo up my ass. I love women I love pussy I always love women but I love having things in my ass,helps me cum
      
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      - Anonymous Post Author
        
        3 years ago
        
        Yea I hear ya I’m not looking to go bigger and bigger with things in my ass but I 100% enjoy when my girls down there eating it and slips a finger in and out from time to time getting your dick sucked is great some guys gotta let the whole gay thing go and take a finger in there atleast will not be dissapointed
        
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- PleaseTalkToMe
  
  3 years ago
  
  Wrong! If one likes it in the ass it definitely is linked to homophobic tendencies. I have read plenty articles on this too
  
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RoseIsabella

3 years ago

Good for her!

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- Winstonall
  
  3 years ago
  
  hahahahahahah
  
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have_a_good_day

3 years ago

In da hood we take a broom stick and wrap a plastic bag around it and spit on it. Then we see who will get the record of making it go in da deepest. It's basically like a professional sport and being a professional at something isn't gay

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FromTheSouthWeirdMan

3 years ago

With my wife it works better when I dont beg for it. I'll just stick my thumb in there and say I'm gonna come in your ass. If I beg for it shes like naw

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Yea I hear ya there there’s been nights I’m finger blasting her ass with my finger pulling it out sucking on it shoving it back in rimming it slamming it in there as she arches her back towards me but as soon as I say can I put it in .... nooooope absolutely not lol
  
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  - FromTheSouthWeirdMan
    
    3 years ago
    
    Try just doing it. Once she gets loosened up just go for it. Dont ask her. It works for me
    
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litelander8

3 years ago

She’s not “gay”. So what implies she’s would want to be buttfucked?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Yes she agrees to be butt fucked by me on the regular as long as I take a dildo in the ass once by her
  
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Winstonall

3 years ago

if you aren't sexually attracted to the same gender you are NOT gay no matter what lmao wtf there are people out there specifically men who like to maybe put dildos or butt plugs up their arses when they are having sex or maybe like getting pegged but are not attracted to men dumbass.

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PleaseTalkToMe

3 years ago

You sound like an animal amd should be exterminated and castrated. You're lucky u dont know me

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- litelander8
  
  3 years ago
  
  We’re all lucky we don’t know you. This is a common topic for couples...
  
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  - PleaseTalkToMe
    
    3 years ago
    
    No you're lucky you dont know me, and yes it common if you're a gutter rat with 0 morals. You sound worse than animals, not even animals happily lick assholes you freaks
    
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    - litelander8
      
      3 years ago
      
      You’re just pissy bc no one wants anything to do with you.
      
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      - PleaseTalkToMe
        
        3 years ago
        
        Doubt it, I have morals
        
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        litelander8
        
        3 years ago
        
        I don’t consider buttsex to be immoral.
        
        Calling strangers “gutter rats” doesn’t coincide with morals.
        
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  You are lucky you don’t know me because I would rip your fucking head off.
  
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  - SickandTwisted18720
    
    3 years ago
    
    Don't let him get under your skin and he's a piece of shit do what you do let her do what she does it's only fair
    
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  - PleaseTalkToMe
    
    3 years ago
    
    As if! You wouldn't get a chance mate! Talk about wishful thinking u disgusting degenerate
    
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Pleasetalktome you are one strange dude
  
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  - PleaseTalkToMe
    
    3 years ago
    
    Lol as if
    
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Tommythecaty

3 years ago

Slap that ho with your pimping hand

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Wryladradofft

3 years ago

Just try it, and if you don't like it then it'll probably just be a one time thing. You really have nothing to lose here unless you do something wrong and hurt yourself

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