My girlfriend (wife to be) always argues with me

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I've been dating this girl for 2 years and plan to get married to her. We love each other a lot and cannot do without each other. But over the past year, our relationship has been incredibly difficult. We argue about so many things which pertain to what will happen after marriage. For example she expects me to pay for everything in spite of having a job. I dont mind that but i find it a bit unfair. Besides this she gets super sensitive about anything i say and is always argumentative and upset. She is a divorcee and her mom is also divorced.

I tried discussing these issues with her but no amount of discussions make her stop being argumentative.

Guys is this normal? Do your girlfriends / wives behave in this way?
Please give your feedback and experience. I really dont want to leave her and she certainly doesnt want to leave me. So breaking up isn't an option.

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Based on 12 votes (1 yes)
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  • Tealights
    6 years ago

    Despite how happy with the idea she may seem to be, she's not ready to get married, it scares her.

    Right now, you're cleaning up problems her previous husband left behind.

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    • Amy122
      6 years ago

      Exactly what I thought

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  • bob7
    6 years ago

    i guess u know why she got divorced now

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    • [Old Memory]
      6 years ago

      The question is, why would someone want to marry her?

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    And you WANT to marry into this? You WANT this day and night?

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  • lonewolf1253
    6 years ago

    Breaking up is always an option. And unless you want a life of misery and an early divorce, you should run like hell! If she's a bitch now, she'll be 10 times worse once she gets that ring. Run and don't look back!

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  • Ellenna
    6 years ago

    You don't want to leave her and you're going to marry someone with hom you have such obvious differences about basic issue which you both keep arguing about?

    If you want a life of misery, go right ahead, knowing you can't change someone else's behavior. Do you really want to live with this situation for years? PLEASE AT LEAST DON'T HAVE KIDS if you do go through with it

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  • SmokeEverything
    6 years ago

    Sounds like you're the meal ticket in this situation. She's marrying you because she believes it's a man's job to take care of her like a child.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Slow your roll there, man. Don't rush into the marriage thing. No offense, but she sounds hella bossy. I'm sorry, but I'm not into bossy people.

    Once again, whatever you do don't rush into anything!

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  • Jimbo24
    6 years ago

    No, dump her. If she wants you to be the sole provider, then she should be extra nice and submissive and become the beta in the relationship ("he who pays the piper calls the tune" etc), not the other way around. I pay, I own you. Unless she wants to split the bill, then yeah, only then can she have a say and call the shots and bitch and moan about what you do or don't.

    She's argumentative and in a bad mood + she wants to be paid for and pampered, it's like the worst of both world. I'd say either she corrects herself or you dump her, cause that doesn't augur a happy marriage at all.

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