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Is it normal for a woman to try and "mold" her perfect man? My girlfriend knew who I was when we met, but she is always nagging me to change things about me, my habits, my dress, my activities.
I don't do that to my husband. I didn't do it to him while we where dating. No woman has the right to tell her boyfriend or husband or girlfriend how they need to dress or act or what he can and cannot do.
sometimes you can't completely change people.
but having a Change is always good for the better!
Dont let her change you if she does she will ruin your life and you will hate it. If she doesnt like you for who you are then thats her problem.
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- Woman loves you
- Woman tries to change you
- Change is complete
- "You've changed I don't love you anymore"
- Break up
Some women have control issues bad to the point of wanting 100% control over their men even in the fashion that they want to change them. It's stupid when anyone tries to make their spouse change. Especially the ones that are all about money. Dumb whores.
Yep, most women do that. Get used to it. It's quite unfortunate. Just never take them too seriously, and this means marriage too. Unless, of course you want to go crazy...
Trust her when it comes to clothes, hygiene, social interaction, food and medicine. Don't let her manipulate you about your friends, family & relations at work, and never rely on her philosophy in life, figuring that out is the man's job in an average orthodox relationship.
all woman try and do this. my wife has made me more domestic less lazy and it has made me a better person and father to our children. trying to change your interests/hobbies changes who you are(dont let her do that)...dont let her change you too much but subtle changes are ok.
it sounds like most women. They all say they don't, and are usually blind enough they can't recognize it, yeah, it's normal.
It's normal, but she should realize that you are who you are and she can either love you for you, or she can go find her non existent mr. Perfect
My gf tried to do the same thing, and failed big time. She seemed to want to make me in to a gay best friend (not in the bedroom) and do shed loads of house work. After a few weeks she gave up on me, I was "a lost cause ". Back to playstation and dirty laundry. My point is that even though she when through a phase were still together and proberbaly beter of for it.
Hope this helps