My girlfriend says im not sexually attractive!?

man life is tooooo short - she may be nice and you may love her, but she is pychologically abusing you - she obviously has negative inner thoughts and issues about how she looks and is projecting that onto you - and if i'm wrong about that then she is more into the mental stimulation rather than physical - i would move on - you will find the special someone out there - the world isnt that big and there are lots and lots and lots of women out there who will find you attractive. good luck. btw what ever happened to the beauty within?????

Im a model, i know im not exactly ugly...i get sex too, a good healthy amount. But i cant help but think...wow, unless i physically start feeling her up, there is nothing i can do to turn her on and it sucks that she wont dive on me when i take my clothes off...that would be nice :(
But then again, i cant imagine many girls doing that? Or am i wrong....?

Eh yep really why date someone if they aint sexuality Attracted to you, its an important part to a relationship

Yeh as it turns out it ended up being kind of a big deal. We broke up a few months ago now, she said she didn't want to sleep with me anymore so she left me. Altho kind of a big blow for me, most of u were right, iv been with people since and most are alot more ready to go than her so im guessing we werent right for eachother. Its nice to know that her opinion is her own and not that of the entire female population haha. :)

...why is she with you if she doesn't find you sexy? Move on sir and find a woman who will appreciate the skype sex attempt.

Damn man that wud kill me to hear that fuck I'd dump her right then it'd just suck

I don't think it's that she doesn't find YOU sexy, but talking dirty can just come off ridiculous, phony, and silly which does not create sexy feelings. It might work in the heat of the moment, but when you are miles away, the sexiest thing you can do is be sincere about how much you miss her and want to spend time with her (in other ways besides sexy-time). Girls think your vulnerability (even if you are a big strong man) is super sexy. Trying too hard to look sexy or be sexy looks like you are trying to be funny or something.

Maybe it's the dirty talking part? I know lots of girls who don't like it under any circumstances. And things are different over skype than in person.

Have done. Tried to tell her this and i think she is on my side with regards to that. Im one open guy, so i got no problem talking to her. She thinks im good looking facially, but apparently my body needs work. However, she tells me that no guys body turns her on? Is this true with some girls? They just dont find guys bodies attractive? I mean i get sex regulararly so perhaps she just doesnt admit to being turned on by me because of this whole, i dont want to seem needy/weak/less dominant thing?...oh the mind of a female, what secrets it holds!

She's a bitch (who would say that to their boyfriend). Dump her ass. If she doens't think your hott. Its always better to be with someone who thinks your attractive. I'm a girl and my boyfriend is extremely attractive and I always want to put things in his butt no matter how smelly he is.

being attracted to someone sexually is one thing.

being considered a sexy person is another.

lots of girls don't find dirty talk sexy.

before you let your mind run wild, maybe you two should talk it out again.

I'm too sexy for my shirt

Well, that's just RUDE!!! Dump her and go find someone that will appreciate you.

why would u date someone ur notatracted to maybe she ment something else by it, that u werent being that at the moment

She could have said it just with humour or to make you angry but if none of above is your situation.then move on she doesnt love you.the one you love always seems the most beautiful for you

lols i dumped the bitch now. We went on holiday for a month and had sex 6 times, so like once every 5 days. Im meant to be in the prime of my sexual activity and once every 5 days simply isnt good enough. Thanks for the comments tho ppl

I'm a girl and I love my boyfriend and do feel incredibly sexually attracted to him and will pounce on him occaisionally when he is naked and not expecting it. I do not, however, find him attractive when he is away and attempts to talk dirty to me or reveals his body over skype. It just is completely different.

Why over think it?

She might be cheating and want to break u

And I believe I would feel exactly as you do. But, stand back and look at this. Maybe this is her own way of dealing with missing you. Maybe (and this isn't any fault of yours) she feels neglected sexually herself with you gone. Just some food for thought. It's impossible to figure what is going on in a persons mind

She could have used the wrong wording. If not, you should be worried. If she doesn't find you sexy, you may run into some problems if you plan on being with her for a long time.
You said your sex life with her while you're home is fine. So she must like sexy with you.

Talk with her and see exactly what she meant.
Not being sexy isn't a good thing for a relationship. Her eyes, thoughts, and feelings will wander to someone she deems sexy. Her body will soon follow.

Good luck.

ha no. she is sexually attracted to me. just me being naked does nothing for her and neither does talking dirty, in fact talking about sex makes her angry? God only knows y, she loves it when its happening!

If she straight up said she's not sexually attracted to you AT ALL, then something's wrong.

Talking dirty may not be her thing. Hell, she may be in to chicks, with you being the one exception. Just decide if her being with you when you get back is what you want. I've dated women I didnt find 'sexy' physically, because their personality was great, and they had a nice _____ (fill in the blank, eyes etc.) Is this going to eat at you, or can you live with it, knowing that you'll have amazing sex with someone you care about when you get back. Is a plane ticket for a weekend vacation doable?

yeh. She speaks of marrying me, and perhaps its naive, but that shows that she cares about me so i dont see an issue there. She accepts me for who I am and how I look. She has told me this many times, she just says that im not sexy and according to her, she doesnt find men 'sexy' persey (probably spelt wrong). Maybe the problem is me not taking it personally? Altho the fact that no one finds my girlfriends behavior nomal says alot..

honie if you do nothing for her then i would move on its not based on that but that helps just know that someone out there will find you as hott as you are and will wanna f*** all the time and see you naked all the time.